[Ninastar]

I'm just annoyed that he will be spending Xmas with her when I asked him many many times if he would spend it with all of us. He said 'I don't know' every time and now it's so obvious

I'm just hurt.

Originally Posted by NativityStar

I'm just annoyed that he will be spending Xmas with her when I asked him many many times if he would spend it with all of us. He said 'I don't know' every time and now it's so obvious

I'm just hurt.

Men prefer quiet lives, and I can sympathise with him here. It's really hard to give to women difficult news, when you know you're going to cause a fight. We put it off and off, and then continually shoot ourselves unintentionally in the foot.

I'm not excusing him, but I understand why he's left it so late. Lot's of us do it.