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Cherie · 15-01-2013, 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Petershaw1984

I dont talk about people at all cherie, i have been so supportive to this one person who after struggling at first and having the majority of the workplace against her has turned into a pretty decent worker and the staff that didnt particuly like her have become pally and respectful to her and that is pretty much down to me.
As i said to ammi its hard hearing what people think of you. I suppose i just feel really let down

I know Peter, that's why I said it takes a very strong person not to get involved in office gossip and as you said you have taken a stand and don't get involved, of course its very disappointing that this has happened, unfortunately that is human nature for you. I suppose looking at it from her point of view, if she was an outsider to begin with and is now in the gang she might find it difficult to walk away and finds it easier to just go with the flow and fit in. Some people just cant stand alone, don't take it to heart its more their problem than yours.

Petershaw1984 · 15-01-2013, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Cherie

I know Peter, that's why I said it takes a very strong person not to get involved in office gossip and as you said you have taken a stand and don't get involved, of course its very disappointing that this has happened, unfortunately that is human nature for you. I suppose looking at it from her point of view, if she was an outsider to begin with and is now in the gang she might find it difficult to walk away and finds it easier to just go with the flow and fit in. Some people just cant stand alone, don't take it to heart its more their problem than yours.

Yeah cherie i know she did struggle at first and has more than once said she feels part of something now she has even said if it wasnt for me then she would have left by now, she probably didnt mean any of what was said.

Ive always been of the mind set that people at work dobt bother me wether they like or dislike me as the people i want to like and love and appreciate me are at home.

AnnieK · 15-01-2013, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Petershaw1984

Yeah cherie i know she did struggle at first and has more than once said she feels part of something now she has even said if it wasnt for me then she would have left by now, she probably didnt mean any of what was said.

Ive always been of the mind set that people at work dobt bother me wether they like or dislike me as the people i want to like and love and appreciate me are at home.

Agree with this although it doesn't make it easier when you hear bad things about yourself. Try and take it with a pinch of salt, you will be the bigger person for it. I bet they were mortified.

armand.kay · 16-01-2013, 12:47 AM

I've never acted lie someone face but I never go up to a person and tell them what I think I normally just bitch and if the person ever addresses me then I tell them what I think... I mean its my last year of school I don't see the point of hurting people, and I cant get into much trouble because I will never see them again.

Petershaw1984 · 17-01-2013, 10:14 PM

back at work tomorow and im working with both these people. not gunna chsnge im just gunna be me. nervous though

Vanessa · 17-01-2013, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Petershaw1984

back at work tomorow and im working with both these people. not gunna chsnge im just gunna be me. nervous though

I'm in a similar situation. I'm just going to be myself and get on with my job. It's not worth getting upset over people who are quite clearly nasty. Good luck tomorrow.

Petershaw1984 · 17-01-2013, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

I'm in a similar situation. I'm just going to be myself and get on with my job. It's not worth getting upset over people who are quite clearly nasty. Good luck tomorrow.

best way to be aint it hun? they arent really my problem im theirs it seems . anyway. thanks off to bedfordshire now