[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Thankyou Kizzy and although time fades things,those involved live it over and over,and sometimes I have wished the culprits dead,isn't that awful?but that is how I feel,I really try not to but I just know if I came across them I would go for them,whether I would kill them ,I dont now all i know is I would probably give a whoop of delight if I heard of any of them were dead,I just cannot forgive,which is ironic really as I hate cruelty and violence in any shape or form and am quite a peaceful person,I probably haven't worded that too well,but I know you will know what I mean.

You expressed yourself beautifully kazanne
I don't for a second think that your feelings on this come from a bad place far from it.
Speaking personally it's not so much about being avenged, it's a feeling of injustice.
I can totally understand the feeling of relief if you discovered the killer was dead, as it would go some way to restoring the balance.
Anger, frustration and grief when manifested are powerful emotions, we can wish death on those who deserve it, but to act on those feelings ourselves is rare.