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16-02-2013, 02:58 PM | #26 | |||
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What a horrible, bigoted thing to say.
As long as gay couples can provide a safe loving environment where these children can flourish, then it does not matter about the sexuality of the couple looking after them.
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16-02-2013, 07:57 PM | #27 | |||
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..unfortunately I still don't think it's easy for gay couples to adopt, I know a couple who recently went through the whole process, only to be told that they should wait longer, when there didn't seem any reason for that decision...very heartbreaking for them, I have no idea whether the same would have been said to a heterosexual couple....
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16-02-2013, 08:04 PM | #28 | |||
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16-02-2013, 08:12 PM | #29 | |||
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..yeah, I'm sure it's not easy for any couple Annie..it's a very long and intrusive process...the gay couple I knew went rhrough the whole thing, it took a very long time and was obviously a huge emotional journey for them as well...they have everything in place, home, careers etc..obviously, they thought it would all lead to adopting their family..(they don't want a baby but two slightly older children)...they were told that it would be best to have lived in their home for around two years or so first,....but no other explanation was given...hmmm, that may have been the same for anyone, I know...it just seems like a flimsy reason.... |
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16-02-2013, 08:15 PM | #30 | |||
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16-02-2013, 08:19 PM | #31 | |||
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..yeah, it's very upsetting for them but they'll wait..there isn't anything else they can do...maybe they're children just aren't there for them yet but when they are, they won't have better parents....
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16-02-2013, 08:25 PM | #32 | |||
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I found that the hardest part of my "journey" knowing I would love a child unconditionally and then hearing atrocities on the news etc of people hurting and neglecting children....you're right, their children will come hopefully and when they do they will cherish them even more....it's such a shame as they wanted older children and adopters are in short demand for older and sibling groups....I hope it works out for them
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16-02-2013, 08:28 PM | #33 | |||
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Having two gay dads would be totally fabulous... especially if you ended up being able to sing like Rachel Berry
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16-02-2013, 09:36 PM | #34 | |||
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..yeah, that was the thing as well..they want older siblings not babies and it must be harder to place two or three siblings in a loving home..they both work with children as well..they would be perfect parents..and will be one day I'm sure..it's a shame they had to go through the whole process and then have to wait another few years though.... |
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17-02-2013, 07:49 PM | #35 | ||
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when deciding who adopts children all factors are taken into account, economics, employment, stable relationships, health, criminal record, education, everything...hes percetly entitled to his opinion, though he does seem to have worded it very poorly...the figures show gay couples are less stable than hetrosexual ones on average,also that a child with a mother and a father has a better chance of a successful life, but its absurd to say its the case for all couples?.ive not studied this subject so I dont know who is best suited, obviously a warm caring loving honest decent person sounds like essential prerequisites to me. I do wonder if part of his quote has been deliberately left out by trouble making journalists though |
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17-02-2013, 09:10 PM | #36 | |||
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...the bit in bold, I do wholeheartedly agree with...
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19-02-2013, 01:31 AM | #38 | |||
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I already say everything i have to say on the Guardian article about this, but needless to say, i was outraged.
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