[Z]

Originally Posted by Apple202

lmfao o dear

we've already listed members who haven't even posted in MTM, is that not a clue?? it's just about what we think of members

I don't keep tabs on who has or hasn't posted in MTM; but the chances are if someone's really insecure about their looks, they aren't about to start posting pictures of themselves on a forum. I'm not having a go at anyone, I'm just asking that you try to think a bit more about the consequences of a "harmless" thread like this. It's not harmless, it can be really harmful.

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Novo

Jesus christ.. a certain member in this thread might as well just say " Me Me Me.. everything is about Me "

that's all i am saying

I'd say this is about Me, but then i'd be saying everything is about me

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Munchkins

Kazanne stop laughing at my expense! you know i'm really offended!

Oh so it was ok for you to laugh at something MTVN posted earlier with an OMG added !! if you cant take it don't dish it.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Zee

Yeah except that's bull**** because the clue is in the name of the game - Snog, Marry, Avoid. It's about judging people's appearance. 'Avoid' is another way of stating that you think someone is ugly, or not as attractive as two other people, and considering this forum is full of people with a great number of insecurities, like in any other walk of life, I would have hoped people would know better than to do something like this. For the attention of the people trying to snort, roll their eyes and pass this off as a light hearted game - how do you think someone who isn't secure in their looks would feel if they saw that another member said they would 'avoid' them? They could receive hundreds of compliments but that one negative comment would be the thing they remember. Just think.

I have honestly, and I genuinely mean this, never seen the 'avoid' part of this game to mean that someone's ugly just that you'd avoid them because you don't like them. The other variation of 'kill' is the same kinda thing - the person out of the list that pisses you off the most. I didn't even know the 'avoid' was or could be taken to mean they're the least attractive of the three, I've certainly never taken it that way when I've played it and when or if I have been chosen for the 'avoid' option I've just seen it as they don't like/don't know me, certainly not related to physical attraction - because then I'd take offence too. So this is news to me (I don't mean that in a rude way, just I've never known the 'avoid' was or could be taken to mean ugly)

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Oh so it was ok for you to laugh at something MTVN posted earlier with an OMG added !! if you cant take it don't dish it.

I was joking Kazanne dear god, obviously it would be hypocritical of me to get offended

[Apple202]

Originally Posted by Munchkins

I'd say this is about Me, but then i'd be saying everything is about me

^

[Apple202]

Originally Posted by Jack_

I have honestly, and I genuinely mean this, never seen the 'avoid' part of this game to mean that someone's ugly just that you'd avoid them because you don't like them. The other variation of 'kill' is the same kinda thing - the person out of the list that pisses you off the most. I didn't even know the 'avoid' was or could be taken to mean they're the least attractive of the three, I've certainly never taken it that way when I've played it and when or if I have been chosen for the 'avoid' option I've just seen it as they don't like/don't know me, certainly not related to physical attraction - because then I'd take offence too. So this is news to me (I don't mean that in a rude way, just I've never known the 'avoid' was or could be taken to mean ugly)

this

[Raph]

Aw at apple trying to continue the game! I'd snog you dude ^^

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Munchkins

I was joking Kazanne dear god, obviously it would be hypocritical of me to get offended

So was I.

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

So was I.

Now i'm just confused

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Novo

Jesus christ.. a certain member in this thread might as well just say " Me Me Me.. everything is about Me "

that's all i am saying

May as well say who...

[Apple202]

Originally Posted by Raph

Aw at apple trying to continue the game! I'd snog you dude ^^

Back at you

[Novo]

think it's pretty obvious, someone else has already pointed it out

[Apple202]

omg that is rlly ew omg

[Amy Jade]

I agree with Jack.

I would put my ex as avoid because well how awkward would that be but I obviously don't find him ugly because we dated.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Raph

I would snog Jack_ , the boy has swag

N'aw thanks Raph, I'd marry you cause you're lovely

Originally Posted by reece(:

I'd marry Jack for his BB views alone.

Likewise

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Novo

think it's pretty obvious, someone else has already pointed it out

What is the point of a post that doesnt' directly name the person, it's hardly going to offend them if they think everything is about them anyway

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Novo

think it's pretty obvious, someone else has already pointed it out

You're going to make me re-read the whole thread?

Mean lol

[Apple202]

Originally Posted by Novo

think it's pretty obvious, someone else has already pointed it out

can u not

just name them or i

[Jack_]

Just to add to what I said I would also never actively partake in or defend any game that criticised anyone's appearance, I'm way above that.

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Just to add to what I said I would also never actively partake in or defend any game that criticised anyone's appearance, I'm way above that.

This

[reece(:]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Likewise

re this thread- it has been such a cluster****

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by reece(:

re this thread- it has been such a cluster****

Atleast it hasn't degenerated into personal insults like some threads do

[Brother Leon]

Novo with the coward subliminals

[Amy Jade]

Snog: munch, apple, raph, jack, vanessa, marcus, jordan, Saph, salman, ben, me myself and I, Annie...

Marry: one of Ammi's sons so she's my new mum

Avoid: my ignore list