[Ammi]

..why do they have to 'have it out' on the forum at all though..most people are on facebook and other sites..if they feel they have something to have out, then they don't have to do it on the forum....

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..why do they have to 'have it out' on the forum at all though..most people are on facebook and other sites..if they feel they have something to have out, then they don't have to do it on the forum....

Exactly Ammi, I really don't get the point of it all.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..why do they have to 'have it out' on the forum at all though..most people are on facebook and other sites..if they feel they have something to have out, then they don't have to do it on the forum....

I agree, Ammi.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..why do they have to 'have it out' on the forum at all though..most people are on facebook and other sites..if they feel they have something to have out, then they don't have to do it on the forum....

And some just have the occasional little rant

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..why do they have to 'have it out' on the forum at all though..most people are on facebook and other sites..if they feel they have something to have out, then they don't have to do it on the forum....

Ammi,some people have brought drama on the forum when there really was no need to , a PM could have sufficed and some 'differences' are forum based I think that is why it comes to the site,but I agree there is not always a need to do this,some people just like to attention seek and air their dirty washing,It would be nice for everyone to get along but as you say it's not possible too many different personalities,which is good,lets face it if we were all nicey nicey,how boring would it be.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Ammi,some people have brought drama on the forum when there really was no need to , a PM could have sufficed and some 'differences' are forum based I think that is why it comes to the site,but I agree there is not always a need to do this,some people just like to attention seek and air their dirty washing,It would be nice for everyone to get along but as you say it's not possible too many different personalities,which is good,lets face it if we were all nicey nicey,how boring would it be.

..yeah, I understand that Kazanne....people won't all get along, that would be expecting the impossible..and it would be nice if people would just ignore the members they don't get along with and not feel the need to snipe at them endlessly..but that would probably be asking too much as well...no one's saying that people have to be nice if they don't loke someone but having an unmoderated fight won't solve anything...the Razzies are meant to 'ease tension' but they don't..ML is supposed to be about positive things but I can't remember one without an argument at some point..so if people do feed the need to have a no holds barred thing then take it off the forum to an internet site that isn't moderated because there is a reason why people stay on this site and that's because members aren't allowed to abuse other people ...

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..yeah, I understand that Kazanne....people won't all get along, that would be expecting the impossible..and it would be nice if people would just ignore the members they don't get along with and not feel the need to snipe at them endlessly..but that would probably be asking too much as well...no one's saying that people have to be nice if they don't loke someone but having an unmoderated fight won't solve anything...the Razzies are meant to 'ease tension' but they don't..ML is supposed to be about positive things but I can't remember one without an argument at some point..so if people do feed the need to have a no holds barred thing then take it off the forum to an internet site that isn't moderated because there is a reason why people stay on this site and that's because members aren't allowed to abuse other people ...

I agree Ammi,I do mostly try and avoid those i dont particulaly get on with,that imo is the best way,but sometimes that human trait in me makes me bite

[Vanessa]

I don't want to get involved in any forum arguments. That's because i tend to get bitchy when i'm upset and i don't want to slag off anyone. Better if i log off until i feel happier.