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Originally Posted by Fenn

What I'm saying is that her intent was to cause a reaction. Daley over reacted massively and used threatening and close to violent behaviour as a result. This was completely out of order as was totally the wrong thing to do. Hazel, however, got a reaction and felt out of her depth.

I'm of course sympathetic for Hazel in that no one should be subjected to that sort of behaviour and language, but we need to remember that it was a flirtatious and fun situation and Daley took this out of hand. They were both in the wrong, but of course Daley ultimately took it too far.

Her intention was, more than likely, to get an erection out of him, not a headbutt thrown at her face - even if wasnt meant to connect.

In my opinion its wrong to call a girl devious because she doesnt know how to handle her friend, and possible lover, threatening her in such a manner. Daley is a trained boxer. A powerful man. And he put his hand around her throat.

No matter what way you spin it, hazel will be in shock. Daley was her friend. She was looking for a little hanky panky. What she got was a warning shot that no woman should experience.

Who cares if she didnt challenge him face to face. We all saw what happened when she took his blanket. Would you like to go face to face with him if you told him he was being aggressive?

Who cares if she was confused in the DR, daley is/was her friend. If she had misread the situation, his life could be over, by a few simple words from her. Shock takes time to lift.

Who cares if she doesnt tell the whole house about it instantly? She probably took a while to process what really happened.

To blame hazel in that situation is so far beyond wrong...sorry...just certain things should never happen