[erinp5]

He has a childrens range he wants to promote he called it Sookie.

[fingers]

Originally Posted by erinp5

He has a childrens range he wants to promote he called it Sookie.

Where? When?

[jet]

A woman guest on BOTS a few nights ago(can't remember who) said Dan would make a great actor in a detective film or drama - that he had the good looks and persona for that. The funny thing was I'd been thinking the same thing earlier.
I'd love to see him on screen in a gritty detective drama!

Dan obviously wanted a career change which happens a lot in the early 30's age group and this probably coincided with him always having wanted to do BB, so it was good timing for him.
Why did the other dozen HM's want to do BB? No one is asking that, so I don't know why it would be asked of Dan specifically.

[erinp5]

Originally Posted by fingers

Where? When?

He spoke about it to the twins on night .

[fingers]

Originally Posted by jet

A woman guest on BOTS a few nights ago(can't remember who) said Dan would make a great actor in a detective film or drama - that he had the good looks and persona for that. The funny thing was I'd been thinking the same thing earlier.
I'd love to see him on screen in a gritty detective drama!

Dan obviously wanted a career change which happens a lot in the early 30's age group and this probably coincided with him always having wanted to do BB, so it was good timing for him.
Why did the other dozen HM's want to do BB? No one is asking that, so I don't know why it would be asked of Dan specifically.

They didn't give up a well paying career, maybe?

[fingers]

Originally Posted by erinp5

He spoke about it to the twins on night .

OK, thanks, missed it!

[jet]

Originally Posted by fingers

They didn't give up a well paying career, maybe?

Dan was giving up his career anyway, for reasons already discussed here, so whether he did BB or not is irrelevant.

[fingers]

Originally Posted by jet

Dan was giving up his career anyway, for reasons already discussed here, so whether he did BB or not is irrelevant.

Your non-answer is the irrelevance.

[cfromhx02]

To have people captive so he could interrogate them till they agreed with his point of view.

[cfromhx02]

Originally Posted by erinp5

He has a childrens range he wants to promote he called it Sookie.

Tell me; "Does she put a kettle on ?". I wouldn't bother Dan. It's been done before.

[jet]

Originally Posted by fingers

Your non-answer is the irrelevance.

If you can't understand a direct and to the point answer without a long winded explanation, that's your problem, not mine.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard

Shouldn't have gone into the police then!

Why, if no one joined the Police we would be in a right mess in this Country.

There are, like anywhere else,good and bad in the Police force, many people in the police force are well repected and greatly liked too.

Are you saying everyone that goes into the Police is not going to be liked so if they are likely decent people that want to be liked they should never join the Police.

I concede to join the Police you would need a sharp and cutting edge to yourself but that doesn't mean all people in the Police force are unlikeable and indeed not liked by others.

Dan clearly had got stressed out by a particular case that involved children being sexually abused.
It actually shows him a decent human being, that even in that position and with his intense training he could feel distress and be affected by what was unearthed in that investigation.

[MTVN]

Well he did say he mainly joined the police because he suddenly found himself confronted with having a son and a lot of big responsibilities and needed a career to support that, it so happened he went into the police and did well out of it but he's likely wanting to go down a different path now, and while BB won't offer him instant fame it can still open up a lot of opportunities in the entertainment industry

[CaudleHalbard]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Dan clearly had got stressed out by a particular case that involved children being sexually abused.

Heaven help us if he had to investigate a gory murder - or a series of them.

(But I don't think he would be allowed to do that as a DC.)

He could have asked to be reassigned. OK it might not have looked to good if he did but surely better than what he has now which is....

Jobseekers Allowance!

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard

Heaven help us if he had to investigate a gory murder - or a series of them.

(But I don't think he would be allowed to do that as a DC.)

He could have asked to be reassigned. OK it might not have looked to good if he did but surely better than what he has now which is....

Jobseekers Allowance!

Many Police and Detectives have had to have counselling after investigating gory murders and the like.
They are human you know. You are missing the point that quite a few have said on here that he likely also already wanted to do something different anyway as well as being affected in some way by the investigation he had been working on.

I am not in any way anti Police so I am really sorry but I cannot grasp where you are coming from.
Clearly for 10 years he did his job good and that is obvious because he rose to DC and is still only 33, I give him great credit for that.
As I do his courage to move on.

Maybe going into BB is also helping him think as to what he likely intends to try to do after he comes out with space away from normal life and the usual influences.

[CaudleHalbard]

My father was a policeman and rose to Sergeant in a lot less time than Dan has been in the force. He left because, years ago, pay was not as good as now and he had major expenses....... e.g. me!

But he lined up a well-paid job in the private sector berfore he left.

Dan's hasty departure from the police has more to it than meets the eye. I don't buy the Savile investigation excuse.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard

My father was a policeman and rose to Sergeant in a lot less time than Dan has been in the force. He left because, years ago, pay was not as good as now and he had major expenses....... e.g. me!

But he lined up a well-paid job in the private sector berfore he left.

Dan's hasty departure from the police has more to it than meets the eye. I don't buy the Savile investigation excuse.

Well there you are your Dad had also reasons to want to leave the Police but ones that had no bearing at all as to how good he was as to his job.
It is to his credit too that he was a member of the Police force.

Dan maybe should have had something lined up and maybe he has,we don't know.
he couldn't however have something lined up to start if he was also going into BB for a possible 2 and a half months.

Neither you or I can know for sure if the Saville element to him leaving the Police is right or not, he has stated that however and his word is good enough for me.
There is nothing anywhere, even from his former bosses in the Police to indicate he is not saying what was so as to that.
I can then accept his account of things very easily in that case.

[jet]

Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard

My father was a policeman and rose to Sergeant in a lot less time than Dan has been in the force. He left because, years ago, pay was not as good as now and he had major expenses....... e.g. me!

But he lined up a well-paid job in the private sector berfore he left.

Dan's hasty departure from the police has more to it than meets the eye. I don't buy the Savile investigation excuse.

I'm sure Dan can live with you not buying it.

[CaudleHalbard]

Originally Posted by jet

I'm sure Dan can live with you not buying it.

Let's hope he can live with his own decision!

He seems to be someone who expects to command respect. Some of that must come from his position as a police officer.

He will get precious little as a benefits claimant - his current position!

[CaudleHalbard]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Dan maybe should have had something lined up and maybe he has,we don't know.
he couldn't however have something lined up to start if he was also going into BB for a possible 2 and a half months.

Dan made it clear he had no idea what he would do once he left the house,

Joey, you are one of the members on here whose views I greatly respect but I cannot agree that what Dan has has done is it any way comparable to what my father did, and why he did it.

So in this case we will have to agree to disagree.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard

Let's hope he can live with his own decision!

He seems to be someone who expects to command respect. Some of that must come from his position as a police officer.

He will get precious little as a benefits claimant - his current position!

I have no idea what it will be but I really doubt Dan will need to be a benefit claimant, there are many jobs available that he could do from his training and knowledge gained in the Police force and I would dare bet there will be offers from other sources waiting when he comes out too.

I doubt he will have much to really worry about as to an income in the future.

hey, despite disagreeing with you, I have loved this debate with you though and thank you very much for sharing that your Father was a policeman too.
We just look at Dan differently clearly,I believe him, you have doubts.
All my best to you anyway.

[jet]

Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard

Let's hope he can live with his own decision!

He seems to be someone who expects to command respect. Some of that must come from his position as a police officer.

He will get precious little as a benefits claimant - his current position!

I'm sure he'll manage.
You don't give up, do you? Why do you care what Dan does as a career anyway?

[CaudleHalbard]

Originally Posted by jet

Why do you care what Dan does as a career anyway?

I don't care one iota.

I just think there's more to it than meets the eye.

Secrets & Lies, Secrets & Lies! Lol!

[cookiemonster]

i think he just wanted a change. his son's getting older so he doesn't need to rely on his dad for every little thing. does his son live with him all the time?

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by CaudleHalbard

Dan made it clear he had no idea what he would do once he left the house,

Joey, you are one of the members on here whose views I greatly respect but I cannot agree that what Dan has has done is it any way comparable to what my father did, and why he did it.

So in this case we will have to agree to disagree.

Surprised at your comment I thought I had been as friendly as possible during it, however you made the first comparison of your Father leaving the Police force not me.
I never compared your Father leaving the police force with Dan's decision either,so please dont twist what I say.

YOU had said why would someone leave the Police after so many years.
Dan left for his own reasons,which really are nothing to do with you or me anyway.
All I said was that clearly there are reasons why people leave jobs they do after a fair amount of time of doing it.

I added after you said, not me,that your Father leaving for his reasons bore no bearing at all as to how good he was at his job.
You were implying that Dan mustn't have been that good at his job, but to me it is the same, him leaving the force for whatever his reasons are also has no bearings as to how good he was as to his job.

Fair enough though, you brought your Father in to the conversation not me and I felt quite privileged you had shared that with me as well.
However I can see that I would have been better to ignore your comment as to your Father.

I thought we had a constructive and decent conversation, well clearly I was wrong, I will most certainly not, make that mistake again.