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Ammi · 31-07-2013, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

But Callum has made a very serious allegation, which he knows it's not true.

..I think it's all part of BB though Vanessa and the public know what's been said so he's not going to gain anything and will just lose support and I doubt that Dexter will be bothered by it or harmed by anything Callum might say...

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..I think it's all part of BB though Vanessa and the public know what's been said so he's not going to gain anything and will just lose support and I doubt that Dexter will be bothered by it or harmed by anything Callum might say...

dexter is very upset by it and i don't blame him. Callum just kept lying and it was so frustrating to watch! Aaargh!

halfacrown · 31-07-2013, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

But Callum has made a very serious allegation, which he knows it's not true.

Callum continues to accelerate his unstable behaviour. We learnt a lot about him when he tried to jump into Dan's shoes and failed. Charlie voting for him was a tipping point, which forced him to confront the fact that he'd lost the fight for her. Callum's paranoia will drag him to extremes and make him seek out somebody to blame. I'm a bit worried for Dexter.

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by halfacrown

Callum continues to accelerate his unstable behaviour. We learnt a lot about him when he tried to jump into Dan's shoes and failed. Charlie voting for him was a tipping point, which forced him to confront the fact that he'd lost the fight for her. Callum's paranoia will drag him to extremes and make him seek out somebody to blame. I'm a bit worried for Dexter.

Dexter is very upset by it. Callum bullying campaign is relentless.

Ammi · 31-07-2013, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

Dexter is very upset by it. Callum bullying campaign is relentless.

..it's not really bullying though, he's lied about the context of what Dexter said and what was meant but I think sometimes they forget that the public know the truth so it was a stupid thing to do, unless that's how her really remembered it and thinks he's telling the truth but either way it doesn't make him look good because he's becoming extremely obsessed with Dexter...who knows, he may even be the one who's evicted on Friday...

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..it's not really bullying though, he's lied about the context of what Dexter said and what was meant but I think sometimes they forget that the public know the truth so it was a stupid thing to do, unless that's how her really remembered it and thinks he's telling the truth but either way it doesn't make him look good because he's becoming extremely obsessed with Dexter...who knows, he may even be the one who's evicted on Friday...

Everytime Callum opens his mouth he slags off Dexter and lies about him. He is targeting him and just wants him out. In any way he can.

Ammi · 31-07-2013, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

Everytime Callum opens his mouth he slags off Dexter and lies about him. He is targeting him and just wants him out. In any way he can.

..yeah, he's really obsessed with Dexter but for Dexter fans that isn't such a bad thing because he was gaining sympathy after Charlie nominated him and this only makes him look really stupid and desperate...

Ellen · 31-07-2013, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

Dexter is very upset by it. Callum bullying campaign is relentless.

Of course he is upset, he doesnt like his own behaviour been looked at.... He has had weeks of belittling & taking the piss out of Callum, weeks of patting people on the back when they have slagged Callum off, weeks of whispering in all the HM's ears negative things about Callum. Dexter is no angel in this, he has had his part to play.

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..yeah, he's really obsessed with Dexter but for Dexter fans that isn't such a bad thing because he was gaining sympathy after Charlie nominated him and this only makes him look really stupid and desperate...

Dexter does not deserve this. he has been treated horribly in that House and sometimes they still pick and ridicule him. Now Callum smear campaign. I wonder how much abuse Dexter can take before he walks.

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Ellen

Of course he is upset, he doesnt like his own behaviour been looked at.... He has had weeks of belittling & taking the piss out of Callum, weeks of patting people on the back when they have slagged Callum off, weeks of whispering in all the HM's ears negative things about Callum. Dexter is no angel in this, he has had his part to play.

It goes both ways. Callum is saying he never slagged Dexter off. That it was all Dexter and this is a big fat lie.

31-07-2013, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

Dexter does not deserve this. he has been treated horribly in that House and sometimes they still pick and ridicule him. Now Callum smear campaign. I wonder how much abuse Dexter can take before he walks.

I prefer Dexter to Callum, but there is no way Dexter will walk from the show.

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Jesus.

I prefer Dexter to Callum, but there is no way Dexter will walk from the show.

I hope not, but everyone has his limits.

smeagol · 31-07-2013, 09:00 AM

The pyscho freakster is always lying manipulating things and twisting things ,
he uses it bed woman and belittle people as he states in his profile

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by smeagol

The pyscho freakster is always lying manipulating things and twisting things ,
he uses it bed woman and belittle people as he states in his profile

I knew his Mr Nice Guy was fake. The man is pure evil. He makes Dexter look like an angel.

Ammi · 31-07-2013, 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

Dexter does not deserve this. he has been treated horribly in that House and sometimes they still pick and ridicule him. Now Callum smear campaign. I wonder how much abuse Dexter can take before he walks.

..to be fair, he's not the only one who's been 'picked on' though Vanessa.. I agree that he and Gina were isolated by others but they themselves have also done that to Callum as well but Callum did lie about what Dexter said, the public know that so I can't see it harming Dexter in any way and he doesn't come across as a 'quitter' at all so I don't think he'll walk, I wouldn't worry about that, he would done that when he was isolated if he was going to...

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 09:03 AM

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..to be fair, he's not the only one who's been 'picked on' though Vanessa.. I agree that he and Gina were isolated by others but they themselves have also done that to Callum as well but Callum did lie about what Dexter said, the public know that so I can't see it harming Dexter in any way and he doesn't come across as a 'quitter' at all so I don't think he'll walk, I wouldn't worry about that, he would done that when he was isolated if he was going to...

He just looked so fed up last night. He knows Callum has been lying about him.

Ellen · 31-07-2013, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

It goes both ways. Callum is saying he never slagged Dexter off. That it was all Dexter and this is a big fat lie.

Which is exactly what Dexter said to Gina when they were discussing Charlie & Callum & then later on he said the same thing to Hazel which was lies. I dont think either of them class it as slagging off because they say it to face to face as well.

Ammi · 31-07-2013, 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

He just looked so fed up last night. He knows Callum has been lying about him.

..it would have annoyed anyone but I can't see it making him walk Vanessa, not after surviving evictions up until now...

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Ellen

Which is exactly what Dexter said to Gina when they were discussing Charlie & Callum & then later on he said the same thing to Hazel which was lies. I dont think either of them class it as slagging off because they say it to face to face as well.

Dexter says he will ignore Callum from now on and i hope Callum does the same.

Vanessa · 31-07-2013, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..it would have annoyed anyone but I can't see it making him walk Vanessa, not after surviving evictions up until now...

Callum just can't bear that Dexter is a much better housemate. He's very jealous if him.

joeysteele · 31-07-2013, 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Ellen

Of course he is upset, he doesnt like his own behaviour been looked at.... He has had weeks of belittling & taking the piss out of Callum, weeks of patting people on the back when they have slagged Callum off, weeks of whispering in all the HM's ears negative things about Callum. Dexter is no angel in this, he has had his part to play.

Well said Ellen, they are both likely as at fault as each other in my view.

Dexter has been belittling,getting at and winding up Callum for weeks now,ever since the Charlie nonsense began.
I am certainly more to the Callum side than Dexter's,he seems as obsessed with Callum as it is claimed Callum is as to him.

smudgie · 31-07-2013, 09:29 AM

What have I missed, I fell asleep for the last half hour or so.

Did Callum say he had lied about what Dexter had said?

DanaC · 31-07-2013, 11:16 AM

I have noticed most of the housemates at various times relayng bits of conversation they've been involved in to other housemates and their memory of those conversations being inaccurate.

People generally don't remember with absolute accuracy, word for word, what has been said by themselves and others. We shortcut in memory, and we remember things according to what we think we've heard rather what we have actually heard. We muddy our memory of what's been said with how those things made us feel and with our own personal perception of events (for example Callum may well remember a conversation in which he feels that Dexter was overly aggressive without in anyway recognising his own responses as equally so). We also muddy past conversations with present ones and with what other people have said about them in the intervening time. It is absolutely possible that these are instances of outright deception, but it is also entirely possible that these are instances of inaccurate memory.

If our memories of conversations were absolutely accurate there would be no such game as Chinese Whispers.

Jemal · 31-07-2013, 11:18 AM

If he thought callum was lieing he would say. Instead he admitted to sam and hazel. I know its a bitter pill for u to swallow vanessa but dexter did something wrong and you can't face the fact.