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Originally Posted by optimisticcynic

"Show your gash for bangers and mash" and "any hole's a goal" - words that may not be the starting point for a lasting marriage, but also words used by many "lads" until they become more mature and respectful of future partners. Empty words all the same.
Hasn't Dexter openly stated that he pays for sex and has different women for different days of the week/occasions - "I have one for conversations, one to look good as I go out etc" Hasn't Dexter also run lapdancing bars and claimed to have slept with the dancers? And isn't Dexter a dick? Why have Dexter fans become heralds of morality over Sam's words, when Dexter's actions make Sam look like Mother Theresa (when alive, of course).

When Dexter approaches a woman put in the house for a task and offers her cash for favors, then you might have a point. Sam is doing this on broadcast tv for the whole world to see, and with people who are doing everyday jobs, not trolling at a club or otherwise expressing they are open to it.

Being a "lad" would not excuse someone saying this to a random store clerk or nurse, so why is it ok for him to say it to passing beauticians and actresses while they're doing a specific job?

The only person Dexter propositioned in the house was someone who works in the escort industry.