[MatthewS]

Originally Posted by optimisticcynic

The former is a specific comment on a woman's sexual behaviour projected by Dexter onto an unwilling and uncomfortable individual and I personally find it more offensive than a generic statement that a horny young lad makes pertaining to not caring who he sleeps with as long as he sleeps with someone. It's akin to the equally self-deprecating line "no standards no regrets."

Have just realised that the uproar on here may be because "any hole is a goal" has been misinterpreted to mean "using the fire exit" as opposed to the explanation above. This is not the case.

Unwilling and uncomfortable? Unless you're secretly Jemima or her official representation, how could you possibly make that assertion? Jemima was never been shy to speak about sex or acts of that nature, I really doubt she took offence. If you think she'd have a problem with that comment, surely she must then have an issue with someone telling her that she's making his "winky' expand. One is definitely a little more eloquent and respectful then the other...

To be honest I don't know exactly what that term specifically refers to. We don't use that in Canada and I've never heard it before. I suspect that it means he'll shag anything with a pulse, but I suppose it could mean he'll also go with whatever hole is available. Either way isn't not really a 'positive' thing lol

You seem to dismiss all Sam's comments as acceptable because he's just a horny young lad. Dexter is only 4 years older. What's the cut off?

For the record I think Dexter has a LOT of things he needs to work on, one of them being how he views and treats woman, if what his VT says is accurate. He's also made a fairshare of d**khead remarks. I'm just noting that Sam had made "sleazy" comments as well, in some cases a little more inappropriate. I hold them both to the same standard.