[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Its not bullying at all

However its not the questions thats the problem (for me anyway). Its the way he asks questions

Imagine this the other way around

Dexter is bitching in the bedroom about Sam. He then decides randomly that hes going to ask something. He is egged on by the others, so he stomps his way outside. Sam is having a conversation in the threehouse with someone. Dexter shouts 'I want to ask you a question' and demands Sam come down from the tree housei. He then very abruptly asks him whatever question. Gets an answer, keeps going on in a very rude and abrupt way..making out he was right the whole time, then just dismisses everything Sam said in answer to the question with a wave of the hand, and walks away whilst still ranting on.

Sam goes on about how rude Dexter is. Sam is much ruder than Dexter.

I see it differently Dexter is more subtle as to his way of bringing things up, Sam is head on.
Neither,when they do it come out smelling of roses.

That would be my point and the ridiculous nonsense of bringing out the bullying card is in my view way over the top.
I don't think in real fact,either is more rude than the other,Dexter was pretty rude and cutting towards Callum many times.

Dexter is no Saint,even though some on here would be already canonising him.

[fingers]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I see it differently Dexter is more subtle as to his way of bringing things up, Sam is head on.
Neither,when they do it come out smelling of roses.

That would be my point and the ridiculous nonsense of bringing out the bullying card is in my view way over the top.
I don't think in real fact,either is more rude than the other,Dexter was pretty rude and cutting towards Callum many times.

Dexter is no Saint,even though some on here would be already canonising him.

St. Dexter the patron saint of the paparazzi!

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I see it differently Dexter is more subtle as to his way of bringing things up, Sam is head on.
Neither,when they do it come out smelling of roses.

That would be my point and the ridiculous nonsense of bringing out the bullying card is in my view way over the top.
I don't think in real fact,either is more rude than the other,Dexter was pretty rude and cutting towards Callum many times.

Dexter is no Saint,even though some on here would be already canonising him.

Agreed Dex is no Saint, but he is not running around confronting people about things that happened weeks ago ie telling Charlie Dexter didn't support her the night of the F and F row etc, Sams problem is that twice now he has been called boring by Sophies Nan (and after that we began to see a bit more of him, coincidence? maybe) and Vanessa F, so he is under pressure to do something. Targeting Dexter is a bit predictable, he should target Charlie about her constant confusion that might win him a few votes.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Agreed Dex is no Saint, but he is not running around confronting people about things that happened weeks ago ie telling Charlie Dexter didn't support her the night of the F and F row etc, Sams problem is that twice now he has been called boring by Sophies Nan (and after that we began to see a bit more of him, coincidence? maybe) and Vanessa F, so he is under pressure to do something. Targeting Dexter is a bit predictable, he should target Charlie about her constant confusion that might win him a few votes.

That is a totally fair comment and frankly I wish they all would,especially Gina too,target Charlie and pull her up for all her nonsense, she talks to them all about it yet she gets off scot free almost.

I also do agree that Sam has obviously been put out by what Sophie's Nan said in the noms too.

I said no one comes out of these confrontations smelling of roses but no one should be the only one attacked for them either in my view.

Yes, though,I would love to see Charlie's reaction if some or all of them told her to sort herself and her thinking out in very strong terms.