[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jake.

Idiots... does that count?

..yeah, that definitely counts Jake..because idiots can be irritating...( so long as it's not me..)....

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

..ammi..it irritates me so much, as if i'm in the one in the relationship It's annoying because the girl acts like it's a special thing they have. Honey, when he was sexting the other honeys hoping to meet up, was it special then. Arrgh get some balls love and leave him.

he's way better looking than her, and her first serious relationship so she probably thinks she can't do better than him so she's settling for his ways. doesn't help that they share all the same friends

..I know exactly what you mean, I've had friends in the same situation and it's so frustrating...you want to shake her/hit him lol...but with relationships and emotions, no matter what you or anyone else says...she won't see it until she sees it for herself...and there's always the danger that she'll resent anyone who tries to tell her...you just have to have faith in her as a friend that she will throw him away, eventually but only she can do that....and if she doesn't..?...then, he may be a rat but then she would rather love a rat than anyone else who would treat her well and that'll be very hard for you to accept, but you'll have to...because she's your friend and what she wants/what makes her happy is more important than him.....

[Thotmas]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..yeah, that definitely counts Jake..because idiots can be irritating...( so long as it's not me..)....



..I know exactly what you mean, I've had friends in the same situation and it's so frustrating...you want to shake her/hit him lol...but with relationships and emotions, no matter what you or anyone else says...she won't see it until she sees it for herself...and there's always the danger that she'll resent anyone who tries to tell her...you just have to have faith in her as a friend that she will throw him away, eventually but only she can do that....and if she doesn't..?...then, he may be a rat but then she would rather love a rat than anyone else who would treat her well and that'll be very hard for you to accept, but you'll have to...because she's your friend and what she wants/what makes her happy is more important than him.....

noooo I don't want to accept it! He's a cock!

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

noooo I don't want to accept it! He's a cock!

..she's probably smart enough to see that he is..eventually, so you won't have to accept it...you can smile while you kick his ass...but the one in the relationship is always 'the last one to see' because they have the complications of emotions and seeing what they want to see...just be patient and I think he'll be gone....and if he breaks her heart first and leaves her, then you'll be there for her, when she needs you most....

[Thotmas]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..she's probably smart enough to see that he is..eventually, so you won't have to accept it...you can smile while you kick his ass...but the one in the relationship is always 'the last one to see' because they have the complications of emotions and seeing what they want to see...just be patient and I think he'll be gone....and if he breaks her heart first and leaves her, then you'll be there for her, when she needs you most....

The thing is I know he'll break her heart and leave. The horrible thing is that she seems the clingy one now,still, how the hell man and he has millions of girlfriends. He gets on better with girls than with boys. Phew I really don't know how she's going to do this.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

The thing is I know he'll break her heart and leave. The horrible thing is that she seems the clingy one now,still, how the hell man and he has millions of girlfriends. He gets on better with girls than with boys. Phew I really don't know how she's going to do this.

..the sad thing, and it's a bit like being a parent as well..is that you have to let people get hurt sometimes, there's nothing you can do...you've tried to tell her, that's all you can do..but people do need to go through things themselves, even painful things...all you can do is be there so she feels less alone when it all ends..and it will and should do because the alternative would be him staying with her, which would be worse....that's a lifetime of broken heart....