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					Originally Posted by  ChristMASS EFFECT
					 
				 
				The problem is if I said I didn't want them, she would do that but I don't think I can go through life knowing I've deprived her of the one thing most people live for. 
 
The problem is it's a lot like Smudgie said with the soulmate thing. Do people change their mind on being a parent when they get older? Is it something like once you reach late 20's a light just switches on in your brain?  
 
That question wasn't aimed at you Vicky btw I have no idea how old you are you could be younger than me for all I know. 
			
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 For me, I was never really fussed about kids, until I got pregnant. I have never been the most maternal of people, but everything changed when I knew I was going to have a baby.
I know that doesnt help much