[bwoty]

Originally Posted by Snowjakes

Then do you agree with Stacey's ban being permanent?

Clocked lol!

For the record all I know is what I've seen on this thread and I agree that this Stacie girl shouldn't be allowed back if she was keeping a database of members images

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

So... You're not allowed too save pictures from MTM
But you are allowed too save pictures from MTM of pictures of members in their school uniform & then research that school uniform, find out what School that member goes too, contact the school about that member & then contact that members cousin's & sibling's.

Oh wait... That doesn't make sense

Are you serious, that's sick. Whoever did that should be banned.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

How is stalking members not a serious issue?

Where did I say it wasn't a serious issue?

I'm pointing out that MM&I is also moving into serious territory by holding print screens of the forum on his computer.

My question is why is he doing this?

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by Salman!

Um excuse me, you seem to forget that the person posted picture of me a few weeks back that I don't have access to anymore and mocked me. What provoked that when I wasn't even arguing with anyone in that thread? These people need to be seen for what they are, vile Internet bullies

Salman, you should know that admin know best, even if they use the forum once a month

[Gstar]

[RichardG]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

She was 15 at the time though.

I was 14 when I joined and I've yet to save any pictures to my computer... I get that people mature at different ages and sometimes teenagers don't understand the consequences of the little things that they do but you're old enough at 15 to know that seeking out peoples facebook profiles and keeping folders full of members images is definitely not right.

To be honest, even if she has completely changed and is a totally different person I think the damage has already been done. People who want to keep in touch with her are more than welcome to do so offsite but I don't think it would be the right decision to allow her back on here. I'd say that goes for all permabanned members too. What's the point of having the option to permanently ban someone if we're going to bring them back again a couple of years later??

Equally - before anyone says anything - I think that anyone who invades another forum members privacy in such a way should be banned too. Ultimately we all originally signed up to this website to talk about a silly reality tv show, not to have our private lives exposed without our consent. It's totally unfair to the people involved.

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by 08marsh

Where did I say it wasn't a serious issue?

I'm pointing out that MM&I is also moving into serious territory by holding print screens of the forum on his computer.

My question is why is he doing this?

I don't have print screens of the forum, you misread

[Josy]

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

Are you serious, that's sick. Whoever did that should be banned.

Well what was missing from that post you quoted was that said member was actually pretending for years to someone they aren't, a completely different gender that had arranged to meet up with another forum member and that the photographs in MTM had actually been stolen from the person they were pretending to be all along.

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by ~HO~HO~HO~

Well what was missing from that post you quoted was that said member was actually pretending for years to someone they aren't, a completely different gender that had arranged to meet up with another forum member and that the photographs in MTM had actually been stolen from the person they were pretending to be all along.

Regardless of the outcome it was still completely wrong, especially a adult too do it too a teenager

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

I was banned for 6 months from Feb - Aug
I didn't tallk too that member after the Mollie thing, I blocked them on skype for a few months

I think we've got our wires crossed, I'm not referring to Mike

[Me. I Am Salman]

Originally Posted by Snowjakes

Then do you agree with Stacey's ban being permanent?

No, because that's not trying to locate a member's personal details by researching their school uniform and contacting their family members, when you're a bunch of 20+ year olds guys and the person in question is a teenage girl

[Josy]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

Regardless of the outcome it was still completely wrong, especially a adult too do it too a teenager

You seem to be forgetting that the image that was saved wasn't even of a member of this forum (not that it makes it right) but basically your argument becomes invalid when the member in question had been stealing those same photos for years to post on this forum in the first place.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

I don't have print screens of the forum, you misread

Maybe not the forum, but "proof" of members doing something. Why would you be holding onto this so long after?

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

No, because that's not trying to locate a member's personal details by researching their school uniform and contacting their family members, when you're a bunch of 20+ year olds guys and the person in question is a teenage girl

This isn't a teenage girl. He's a bloke, called Mike. Somebody who thought it would be fine to not only steal anoyher persons identity, but to use it to grow friendships with others, going as far as to allow somebody meet them at a certain point only to cancel out. I'm not arguing that it went too far, but sticking up for Mike is just bizarre imo.

[Me. I Am Salman]

Originally Posted by 08marsh

Maybe not the forum, but "proof" of members doing something. Why would you be holding onto this so long after?

Why wouldn't he? You're speaking as if the things they done are normal

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by ~HO~HO~HO~

Well what was missing from that post you quoted was that said member was actually pretending for years to someone they aren't, a completely different gender that had arranged to meet up with another forum member and that the photographs in MTM had actually been stolen from the person they were pretending to be all along.

Oh you mean Mollie/Mike.

I pretended to be somebody else too, It was a mistake and sometimes we get caught up in mistakes and it just snowballs. I mean I know I never went as far as Mollie did but I pretended to be a stranger because I was unhappy with how I looked, I was lucky those involved accepted me for me in the end.

I still think basically stalking a member to find out where they live and informing their relatives of their online actions is way ott.

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by ~HO~HO~HO~

You seem to be forgetting that the image that was saved wasn't even of a member of this forum (not that it makes it right) but basically your argument becomes invalid when the member in question had been stealing those same photos for years to post on this forum in the first place.

Even though it was wrong of him to steal that girls photos, it was harmless as she had no idea. The way he was exposed was completely out of order and no one has any idea how much damage it might have caused.

[Me. I Am Salman]

Originally Posted by Snowjakes

This isn't a teenage girl. He's a bloke, called Mike. Somebody who thought it would be fine to not only steal anoyher persons identity, but to use it to grow friendships with others, going as far as to allow somebody meet them at a certain point only to cancel out. I'm not arguing that it went too far, but sticking up for Mike is just bizarre imo.

I keep getting mixed up with Mike/Munchkins, cuz they were stalking munchkins too

[Amy Jade]

I miss Munchkinz.

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

I keep getting mixed up with Mike/Munchkins, cuz they were stalking munchkins too

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

Why wouldn't he? You're speaking as if the things they done are normal

How have I normalised anything? Pipe down.

I'm asking why people feel the need to hold onto these pathetic incidents from a long time ago instead of growing up and moving on.

The incident is over, what good is holding onto screenshots going to do? Seriously?

[Drew.]

If it wasn't for Munch then Mollie might still be on here.

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

I keep getting mixed up with Mike/Munchkins, cuz they were stalking munchkins too

Oh okay

[Josy]

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

Oh you mean Mollie/Mike.

I pretended to be somebody else too, It was a mistake and sometimes we get caught up in mistakes and it just snowballs. I mean I know I never went as far as Mollie did but I pretended to be a stranger because I was unhappy with how I looked, I was lucky those involved accepted me for me in the end.

I still think basically stalking a member to find out where they live and informing their relatives of their online actions is way ott.

I don't think anyone has ever said otherwise.

Originally Posted by Jordan.

Even though it was wrong of him to steal that girls photos, it was harmless as she had no idea. The way he was exposed was completely out of order and no one has any idea how much damage it might have caused.

It wasn't harmless, not to members on this site that got close to the persona that Mike had invented..

I do agree that the way it was exposed was out of order again I don't think anyone has ever said otherwise?

Anyway...just because both incidents involved photos of members doesn't mean they can be compared, it was completely different scenarios.

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by Santi Claus

If it wasn't for Munch then Mollie might still be on here.

Don't drag her name because you can, she was trying too stop it, and was asking you guys too. All you've done now is prove you were involved.