[Ammi]

..no matter how bitter she's been acting toward Jim, whatever she has said has been about him, not another member of his family and least of all a deceased one...he could have retaliated in the same vein as her, which he sometimes has anyway but bringing attention to what her husband did, was totally crossing the line and I think he knows that...nothing she has said deserved that particular cruelty....and it's very telling of someone who would do that because even in the worst of angers, most people wouldn't because it oversteps anything that is acceptable...