[billy123]

So what do you think Linda was referring to when she talked about getting Jim kicked out of a club before the series even started?
She was referring to incidents when the thieving husband of hers made such a habit of stealing from people at her gigs that when he was caught on camera doing it Jim turned up at the club Linda And Frank Carson were playing at after the theft to give the thief a hard time.
Frank and Jim were good friends and he was angry about it and rightfully gave him a gobfull of abuse.

Jim didnt carry the grudge into the house but Linda did.
She is so bitter about it that she felt the need to carry it on and it was only fair that Jim told everyone why Linda was so bitter.
She carried it on not him.

So im afraid you arent right in the assumption that she didnt bring it up because she did.
I think she was wrongly assuming that he would just react with anger rather than the truth.