[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Cuda

I need advice. I feel guilty for something people are telling me not be be guilty about.

..why do you think that you feel guilty, Tom..?..

Originally Posted by JackF

My dad cares mores about his robbing twat of a brother than his son. I wouldn't mind if he had other kids but I'm his only child

...I'm sure he does care Jack, but it's hard if he doesn't show you that he cares or make you feel he does.....do you have a close relationship with your mum..?...

[Jack.]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..why do you think that you feel guilty, Tom..?..



...I'm sure he does care Jack, but it's hard if he doesn't show you that he cares or make you feel he does.....do you have a close relationship with your mum..?...

Yeah me and my mum have a close relationship.

[Shaun]

maintenance, apparently, Vanessa

[Vanessa]

Before that they said it was a technical glitch.

[T*]

Originally Posted by JackF

Please tell

Well; Last night I had a particularly heated argument with someone on Facebook chat. It was because he thinks it's funny to harass me and tag me in humiliating pictures he finds (you know, those pics that people share and like)

We have an argument and he then starts picking on me, some of my friends (including my best friend) and classmates. Like really horrid stuff. (One of the things he said was "I wouldn't be surprised if ___ died a virgin, he's so ugly")

So I screenshot it. I showed it to the people he insulted in the messages (because it's horrid, they have a right to know)

And then, because it's a small school, it spreads like wildfire through the class and everyone thinks he's an arsehole (he is IMHO), and begin to drift away from him. He's really upset and angry with me, and then I find out why.

People have been spreading rumours that he was insulting people not involved, etc.

I did it because I thought it was the right thing, and now it's escalated from there.

Am I at fault? Is the person who insulted people behind their backs in the wrong, or am I?

[Ammi]

..so is no one talking to him, is that what you're saying, Tom..?...

[Jessica.]

He deserves it for being an idiot, anyway it will be forgotten about in a few weeks, maybe tell him you didn't expect it to go so far, but he should know in future not to be so horrible about classmates?

[Jack.]

Originally Posted by Cuda

Well; Last night I had a particularly heated argument with someone on Facebook chat. It was because he thinks it's funny to harass me and tag me in humiliating pictures he finds (you know, those pics that people share and like)

We have an argument and he then starts picking on me, some of my friends (including my best friend) and classmates. Like really horrid stuff. (One of the things he said was "I wouldn't be surprised if ___ died a virgin, he's so ugly")

So I screenshot it. I showed it to the people he insulted in the messages (because it's horrid, they have a right to know)

And then, because it's a small school, it spreads like wildfire through the class and everyone thinks he's an arsehole (he is IMHO), and begin to drift away from him. He's really upset and angry with me, and then I find out why.

People have been spreading rumours that he was insulting people not involved, etc.

I did it because I thought it was the right thing, and now it's escalated from there.

Am I at fault? Is the person who insulted people behind their backs in the wrong, or am I?

Tom you did the right thing. All that person is a bully.

[T*]

Originally Posted by Jessica‪

He deserves it for being an idiot, anyway it will be forgotten about in a few weeks, maybe tell him you didn't expect it to go so far, but he should know in future not to be so horrible about classmates?

I tried, but he doesn't want to talk to me :/

[T*]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..so is no one talking to him, is that what you're saying, Tom..?...

The people who are talking to him are being angry because they're upset about it. Other than that, no ones talking to him.

[T*]

I never want things like his to happen because what of at person was depressed and hurts himself

[T*]

Also I just found out my cousins in critical condition, can this day get any worse

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Cuda

Also I just found out my cousins in critical condition, can this day get any worse

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Cuda

The people who are talking to him are being angry because they're upset about it. Other than that, no ones talking to him.

..I think that you did the right thing by confronting it and now maybe he'll behave differently but it's also not nice to feel isolated so you could try talking to him, if you felt you could and then maybe it could all be moved on from, rather than him feel angry and you feel guilty...?...

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Cuda

Also I just found out my cousins in critical condition, can this day get any worse

..aww, I'm sorry to hear that, Tom....

[Jack.]

Twitter is back up

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by JackF

Twitter is back up

Yay!

[Jack.]

Originally Posted by Cuda

Also I just found out my cousins in critical condition, can this day get any worse

sorry to hear that Tom

[T*]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I think that you did the right thing by confronting it and now maybe he'll behave differently but it's also not nice to feel isolated so you could try talking to him, if you felt you could and then maybe it could all be moved on from, rather than him feel angry and you feel guilty...?...

I'll try this, he'll probably not want to talk but thank you

[T*]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Originally Posted by JackF

sorry to hear that Tom

Originally Posted by Ammi

..aww, I'm sorry to hear that, Tom....

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Cuda

I'll try this, he'll probably not want to talk but thank you

...I think so long as you show that you just want to move on from it, then that's all you can do Tom, whether he wants to carry on being angry is up to him but it's only himself that he'll hurt and make unhappy if he does...and it shows you to be the bigger person, if that's how he reacts...you'll have done all you can and that's all you can do and you won't have to feel guilty in knowing that either...

[Jake.]

Chinese takeaway it is

[Vanessa]

Time to order my pizza!

[Jack.]

I'm having a rustlers burger

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jake.

Chinese takeaway it is

.....could you get extra crispy vegetable stir fry for me please, Jake...