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Originally Posted by Munchkins

All these saying you knew because he was camp
so basically you just buy into the stereotype that camp=gay basically such an annoying stereotype, all the gay guys i know are far from it, and its not due to internalized homophobia as some would say lol

But that's just it soo many gay dudes who claim they are not camp, take pride that they are straight acting (bless)etc, really come across as camp, that nobody guessed. Ever since i accidently outted a very effeminate hairdresser thinking it wasnt a secret, I've lost count the number of times I have to politely pretended that I never could guess when it was so obvious.

People always cite singer Frank Ocean and ex rugby star Gareth Thomas as being examples of not being typicaly camp. Really? Frank Ocean uses the word fabulous alot ininterviews and waves his wrist in a limpy manner. Did you see Gareth Thomas on CBB? HE confessed to liking Girls Aloud, preferred to gossip with the girls like Denise and Wag Nicola and danced really gay, even he admitted this. How the heck didnt his wife guess?