[Glenn.]

Originally Posted by Z

Well I had dinner and drinks with my friend and we went out and then we bumped into my ex just before we went into the club which is always a bit awkward but I've got no problem with him, it's been 3 years, I was just a bit heartbroken that he never gave me an explanation or an apology for the way he treated me but that's as far as it goes for me. Anyway we're in the club and I see him, he comes over and says hi, we go away for a bit, we come back down later and were with other friends and then my friend went to the bathroom and the people I knew had all disappeared off and I was by myself on the dance floor so then started speaking to my ex. Then out of nowhere he just starts apologising for all of the horrible things he did to me, and bearing in mind this was all 3 years ago, I was beyond expecting to ever hear an apology and had more or less put it behind me out of necessity rather than because I was okay with it; you can't spend your life waiting around for an apology...

So that was nice and I was like okay great this is all I ever wanted, ace, so we were having a great time and then my friend reappeared then disappeared again so I went through to another part of the club with my ex and his friends and it was so much fun, just joking around and being normal with him, and then out of nowhere he kisses me and I'm like sista no and he's all apologetic and then I went home alone and felt miserable before going to sleep and now this morning I'm like I'll message him and ask him if he wants to go for a coffee and now I'm wondering wtf I'm even doing

Firstly I need to get my head around the fact you had a boyfriend. Secondly, before you message him although I don't know what occurred when you were together, you need to remember what he did and why it ended.

Do you want to go for a coffee with him?