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It gets me down sometimes, I think I spoke about it on here a few months ago. He was one of my best friends I'd made at uni and just over the last two years he's gone from being somebody that I would talk to every day and confide my every problem to, to being a near stranger. I don't like him any less than I did before, there was no argument or change of interests or anything, I put it entirely down to him becoming friends with people who have it out for me and turning him against me and now it's gotten to a point where there's no going back. Avoiding someone for a little while can be remedied but at this stage it's become a joke; he says he's too busy or skint to hang out and then I'll bump into him on a night out that same day... or he'll say he's got so much to do but then if a mutual friend's organising something he'll be there... makes me wonder what on earth I could have done to cause such a situation and then I think, no, I haven't done anything wrong, and what do I care anyway? You can't make someone like you if they don't want to. So this (friend)ship has been set adrift and it's probably the most sensible thing to do, to not look back and try and get it back to where it was. You don't want someone as a friend if they don't want you as one.