[Tom4784]

I thought it was spot on, Marlon has been dragged up and you can tell that by the way he acts.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

I thought it was spot on, Marlon has been dragged up and you can tell that by the way he acts.

That's a hell of an assumption, blaming someone's parents for the way they act.

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Josy

That's a hell of an assumption, blaming someone's parents for the way they act.

Not at all, it's easy enough to tell that his upbringing was flawed. You can spot it a mile off.

[Lostie!]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Not at all, it's easy enough to tell that his upbringing was flawed. You can spot it a mile off.

You've said this twice now. Care to elaborate? I'd love to know what tells you for a fact that his actions are mainly down to his upbringing as opposed to other factors (like, that just being his personality, for example).

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Lostie!

You've said this twice now. Care to elaborate? I'd love to know what tells you for a fact that his actions are mainly down to his upbringing as opposed to other factors (like, that just being his personality, for example).

It's fairly obvious just watching how he acts.

His misogynistic streak is a big tell, misogyny can often be linked to mother issues, it's not the only cause but it's a probable one. Secondly, the immaturity, an immature adult is a surefire sign that something was lacking during their upbringing. He acts like a child because he doesn't know how to act like an adult. Distant or overprotective parents, both as damaging as each other.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Josy

That's a hell of an assumption, blaming someone's parents for the way they act.

I agree,my God the hypocrisy on here,how many times did Toya call him a twat? and other things.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I agree,my God the hypocrisy on here,how many times did Toya call him a twat? and other things.

And having a go at Marlon because of the job he does.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

And having a go at Marlon because of the job he does.

Yeah, how dare he not go away to law school. How dare he have a perfectly acceptable, regular job.

He should go to Nigeria and own his own youtube channel. Only then will he find true happiness.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

And having a go at Marlon because of the job he does.

Yes,she was revelling in humiliating him,hope the gobby bint goes on Friday

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Yes,she was revelling in humiliating him,hope the gobby bint goes on Friday

Me too. And i hope Helen bows up on her.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

And i hope Helen blows up on her.

You kinky mare.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I agree,my God the hypocrisy on here,how many times did Toya call him a twat? and other things.

..tbf though, we're all guilty of that to a degree or most of us..(I think I've only ever seen a few people posting who I would personally say are totally 'fair' with their views..) and look at things completely objectively regardless of their favourites...and not just in this BB either...probably also in real life because we 'judge' each situation separately and see differences in them etc...(actually I've lost my train of thought ....)..

[andybigbro]

Originally Posted by Josy

That's a hell of an assumption, blaming someone's parents for the way they act.

This is a debate that has gone on long in Psychology. So it's nothing new, many people believe that people's behaviour has a massive correlation with how they were raised.


I'm not condoning what Toya said, but I genuinely believe that Toya said this in regards to him being so incapable to be brought up correctly because of issues within himself, his parents had to drag him up.

[Doogle]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

I thought it was spot on, Marlon has been dragged up and you can tell that by the way he acts.

Spot on indeed