[Ammi]

..he does have occasional moments of being ok but I think he's too much 'under Helen's thumb' ..I don't think he always agrees with her either and the methods in which she does things and confronts people and of all people I think he's in a position to day..'look Helen, I like you but...this is wrong..' etc...and if they really did have a genuine friendship, she would listen to him and take it on board...friendships are not about just blindly following someone, whatever they do or however badly they behave..anyway, in general I find it very hard to have any respect for him at all because he's just happy to sit back and let it all happen around him and that's just not providing anything in his own rights as a housemate....