[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Redway

people do you hate? For me it would have to be those who tell others to pull themselves together and get a grip because there are people out there who have it worse than them. And also people who give up their entire personality just to 'fit in'.

You?

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I don't like people who tell you to "pull yourself together" either.

But telling you that there are people in the world who have it worse actually makes me feel better. Because it's true.

Helps you focus on all the positives and stop dwelling on the negatives, never fails to cheer me up.

..I kind of agree with both of you....I always believe that if you have a problem/worry/something that makes you unhappy etc then it's huge because it's huge to you and making you unhappy, no matter what it is or how small someone else may think it is because there are no 'ratings' to these things, it's how they make you feel..but sometimes, something else may happen..a 'leveller', either in your own life, someone you know or something that happens in the world in general, which can then make you reassess things and appreciate the things in your life that are positives and make that worry feel much less than it felt before....