[Achilles]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I'm not being patronising at all, I'm pointing out that one poster who spoke as though it's the Big Bad Helen and the victim innocent Ashleigh.

As opposed to them being two people who don't get along because they don't like each other and they are both bitchy about one another.

Yes that is true. The difference is that Ashleigh bitches about Helen because Helen is nasty to other people. Ashleigh bitching about Helen is exactly the same as all the general public bitching about Helen.