[sampvt]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

She's not a true friend to any of them in there, she uses them all

Her use and abuse strategy has been as clear as a bell for several weeks now yet all we hear is ... aw poor little Ashleigh, she is after all only 18 years old.... With the exception of Helen and maybe Chris, she is the most street wise person in there. She knows how to get the best out of someone, then where the bin is. Typical ''user'' stereo type behaviour.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by sampvt

Her use and abuse strategy has been as clear as a bell for several weeks now yet all we hear is ... aw poor little Ashleigh, she is after all only 18 years old.... With the exception of Helen and maybe Chris, she is the most street wise person in there. She knows how to get the best out of someone, then where the bin is. Typical ''user'' stereo type behaviour.

I bet she done it all her life, and "Mummy" has let her

[Dollface]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

I bet she done it all her life, and "Mummy" has let her

What has Ashleigh's behaviour got to do with "Mummy"? I just don't understand why you're bringing her mum into it

As for her "using" and "abusing" people, hasn't she been with the same boyfriend since she was 16? She's clearly loyal to him and in love with him, so there's no using going on there. The way i see it is; people she cares about/people who mean a lot to her, she treats well. Afterall, she's known Christopher etc. for a few+ weeks, she has no idea who she can trust in that house & who deserves her trust.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Dollface

What has Ashleigh's behaviour got to do with "Mummy"? I just don't understand why you're bringing her mum into it

As for her "using" and "abusing" people, hasn't she been with the same boyfriend since she was 16? She's clearly loyal to him and in love with him, so there's no using going on there. The way i see it is; people she cares about/people who mean a lot to her, she treats well. Afterall, she's known Christopher etc. for a few+ weeks, she has no idea who she can trust in that house & who deserves her trust.

She's clearly been allowed to be a brat ,someones made her that way ? and mummy should have told her at an early age you don't talk to people that way

[Dollface]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

She's clearly been allowed to be a brat ,someones made her that way ? and mummy should have told her at an early age you don't talk to people that way

Talk to people what way? She snapped, everyone snaps when they're in a bad mood. But if that's the way you think then maybe your mummy should have told you certain things aswell, like not commenting on peoples appearances. (bringing up Ashleigh spots tut tut ) However i don't think a parent can be 100% responsible for their child's behaviour
& I'm not even sticking up for Ashleigh (i'm more team Christopher, tbh & i think Ashleigh shouldn't have snapped at Christmas like that) i'm just sticking up for her Mum, who shouldn't really have been bought into this

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Dollface

Talk to people what way? She snapped, everyone snaps when they're in a bad mood. But if that's the way you think then maybe your mummy should have told you certain things aswell, like not commenting on peoples appearances. (bringing up Ashleigh spots tut tut ) However i don't think a parent can be 100% responsible for their child's behaviour
& I'm not even sticking up for Ashleigh (i'm more team Christopher, tbh & i think Ashleigh shouldn't have snapped at Christmas like that) i'm just sticking up for her Mum, who shouldn't really have been bought up.

No they don't, it's rude and juvenile... How patronising to ashleigh is all this justification, removing blame for her ridiculous behaviour as she is 'tired'?
Yes she's the youngest in the house doesn't mean she has to regress....

[Dollface]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

No they don't, it's rude and juvenile... How patronising to ashleigh is all this justification, removing blame for her ridiculous behaviour as she is 'tired'?
Yes she's the youngest in the house doesn't mean she has to regress....

Oh, okay, i'm sure you've never snapped at a friend and then regretted it (--i know I have, but then again i am juvenile )
My point is.. yes she snapped, yes she was rude, yes she shouldn't have done it. But it's not like she threatened to kill someone..

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Dollface

Talk to people what way? She snapped, everyone snaps when they're in a bad mood. But if that's the way you think then maybe your mummy should have told you certain things aswell, like not commenting on peoples appearances. (bringing up Ashleigh spots tut tut ) However i don't think a parent can be 100% responsible for their child's behaviour
& I'm not even sticking up for Ashleigh (i'm more team Christopher, tbh & i think Ashleigh shouldn't have snapped at Christmas like that) i'm just sticking up for her Mum, who shouldn't really have been bought into this

she was the only one name calling......shes a spoilt brat