[Ammi]

Originally Posted by icecakes

Others do it occasionally,she,s done it since day one, Lex is spot on, she is a miserable bitch,she,s in the big brother house for gods sake

..no one is 'spot on' though, it's just different perspectives in what we see..yes, Ashleigh 'bitches' as does everyone in the house and always have done...you can't compare that pressure cooker environment to 'real life' either or to real friendships because they just aren't the same...they are all 'forced' friendships...occasionally some may be lasting outside the house but they're still forced while they're in there because of the entire situation...and some people just won't bind at all and will actively dislike each other but some will be confrontational about that which causes an awkwardness for all around and some will try to keep a certain status quo but will 'let off steam' to their confidantes or in the Diary Room, which is it's main purpose anyway...there is no 'right or wrong' to that..no 'worse' to that, it's just different ways but for me, Ashleigh's is much better because she doesn't add to an understandable 'bitching' by abusing people to their faces and making them feel awful and also afraid to speak openly in a critical way or just make them feel it's not worth it for everyone involved....

..anyway, I honestly think that Ashleigh would have less 'haters' in general if she smiled while she bitched and then it would be 'funny bitching' more but she does scowl so it comes across as spoilt etc...but it's just a natural bitching, no worse than all other housemates in there or who came before in other series....in my perspective which is no less 'spot on' or more 'spot on' than anyone else's is when Helen bitches ..like with what she would do to Christopher's toast because he didn't pick her in the task...?...is oh, ho ho, what another corker from Helen, how funny....etc etc and not just Helen, they've all bitced and substantially bitched...there hasn't actually been very many 'happy/smiley' moments from any of them...because it's been a particularly hostile house or because BB have chosen not to dhow us any..?..hmmmm, we'll never know I guess....