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Originally posted by Sophii3x
I'm can be very quiet and then very loud.

My grandfather is deaf, so my whole family have to shout to him instead of speaking (he wears a hearing aid). It's really annoying because I'm a generally quiet person, I'm only loud when I speak to him. I never speak in school, that's why people in school don't notice me. But I'm chatty with my friends.

That was kinda like me when I was at school Sophie.

To my friends I would be very chatty and certainly extroverted, but to another pupil or pupils in the school, that I didn't really know, I wouldn't approach.

The same goes for many, many more people.

But on a forum, it can take away some of those apprehensions that may occur in the real world and some can use those very loudly or very quietly on a forum and don't worry as much.

The one observation about being loud on a forum, is, that sometimes it is quite easy to scare other members and make them think that the person being so loud is really not a nice person.

This is when they have to explore the forum and the member who may be very loud and see whether that member has been loud and scary in other places within a forum.

That will tell you or anyone else whether they are actually just like that or something more sinister.

and if it does result in the word, "sinister", avoidance is the best choice to make.




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