[Josy]

Originally Posted by jet

Maybe he IS a good judge of character. He's the only one with any time for Gary.

Hmm I disagree. He was told to help Gary out a bit and certainly grudges anything he does for him. He said it himself the other night "I feel like a ****ing babysitter" doesn't sound like someone happy to help IMO.

[Mick]

Originally Posted by Josy

Hmm I disagree. He was told to help Gary out a bit and certainly grudges anything he does for him. He said it himself the other night "I feel like a ****ing babysitter" doesn't sound like someone happy to help IMO.

Yes unfortunately that's my take on his "I am the closest one to you" assumption. I did not hear Gary agree.

RE his chosen "friends" the younger ones making him (in his eyes) a bigger fish in a smaller pond.?

A very insecure and sad human being imo.

[jaxie]

Originally Posted by Josy

Hmm I disagree. He was told to help Gary out a bit and certainly grudges anything he does for him. He said it himself the other night "I feel like a ****ing babysitter" doesn't sound like someone happy to help IMO.

He totally misunderstood the warning he was given and interpreted it as being Gary's reluctant carer because he is too insufferably arrogant to realise his behaviour was in the wrong.

[jessicadanielle]

Originally Posted by Josy

Hmm I disagree. He was told to help Gary out a bit and certainly grudges anything he does for him. He said it himself the other night "I feel like a ****ing babysitter" doesn't sound like someone happy to help IMO.

Exactly. Sick of people using the "James is the only one who helps Gary" argument. The way he behaves is like giving a quid to charity then moaning about it. Does my bloody head in.

[jet]

Originally Posted by jessicadanielle

Exactly. Sick of people using the "James is the only one who helps Gary" argument. The way he behaves is like giving a quid to charity then moaning about it. Does my bloody head in.

Maybe he's entitled to a moan as he's the one who is around him the most.
James isn't one to keep his feelings to himself.

[jessicadanielle]

Originally Posted by jet

Maybe he's entitled to a moan as he's the one who is around him the most.
James isn't one to keep his feelings to himself.

I could agree if you said you'd understand him moaning since he's around him more, but not "entitled" to moan. It's sooooo bloody annoying when someone does you a favour then never stops moaning about it almost making you feel guilty that they helped you. That's what James reminds me of.

Either be helpful to someone and be happy to help, or leave them be. Don't help them then constantly go on like you're some martyr!