[Josy]

Originally Posted by jet

So if someone is rude you shouldn't ever be rude back?
If someone continually ignores a request (like not butting in) which is an insult to you in itself, you shouldn't insult them back?

Not saying James was right, but it seems like you have forgotten Gary's role in this.

If it was George or Audley, instead of Gary, would it be okay to keep butting in (when asked not to over and over) when they heard their name, instead of waiting for them to finish speaking?

In this instance I don't think Gary was being very rude when James was discussing him to start with.

I haven't forgotten Gary's role at all and have mentioned throughout this thread that butting in is rude but you seem to completely ignore those parts of peoples posts and continue saying people don't blame Gary for anything.

And to answer your question no it wouldn't be okay to KEEP butting in to anyones conversations but if that conversation is about you which this one was and you are sitting right there then I don't see it as being rude enough to deserve a long winded rant from James telling you that you are being rude whilst being completely rude about you during it.

This feels like ti's going round in circles tbh.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Josy

no it wouldn't be okay to KEEP butting in to anyones conversations but if that conversation is about you which this one was and you are sitting right there then I don't see it as being rude enough to deserve a long winded rant from James telling you that you are being rude whilst being completely rude about you during it.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Josy

In this instance I don't think Gary was being very rude when James was discussing him to start with.

I haven't forgotten Gary's role at all and have mentioned throughout this thread that butting in is rude but you seem to completely ignore those parts of peoples posts and continue saying people don't blame Gary for anything.

And to answer your question no it wouldn't be okay to KEEP butting in to anyones conversations but if that conversation is about you which this one was and you are sitting right there then I don't see it as being rude enough to deserve a long winded rant from James telling you that you are being rude whilst being completely rude about you during it.

This feels like ti's going round in circles tbh.

Sorry Josy, I hadn't seen some of your previous posts were you said that. This thread is moving too fast!