[ThriceShy]

In the diary room she clearly agreed that she had been bullying Gary. So that is now put to bed and the people claiming that it wasn't bullying were wrong.

But why did BB let her get away with saying "he made me bully him."

[jaxie]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

In the diary room she clearly agreed that she had been bullying Gary. So that is now put to bed and the people claiming that it wasn't bullying were wrong.

But why did BB let her get away with saying "he made me bully him."

Unbelieveable isn't it?

[Absorption]

"His behaviour turned me into a bully. I take full responsibility for that."

Of course you do, Stephanie. Just like your second statement in that quote doesn't contradict the first!

[jessicadanielle]

Originally Posted by Absorption

"His behaviour turned me into a bully. I take full responsibility for that."

Of course you do, Stephanie. Just like your second statement in that quote doesn't contradict the first!

I know wtf

[Marsh.]

Given the fact she said "he made me bully him" means she doesn't understand the definition of the word.

[jaxie]

You have to wonder why she hasn't been thrown out of the house really. They've done it in cases of bullying before.

[jessicadanielle]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Given the fact she said "he made me bully him" means she doesn't understand the definition of the word.

Why does it mean that?

[Pincho Paxton]

She didn't think she was bullying, she thought that denial would get her in more trouble.

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by jaxie

You have to wonder why she hasn't been thrown out of the house really. They've done it in cases of bullying before.

Where is the consistency?

Emily was ejected at 3am with no knickers on because she said the N word in a jokey rap song type way. Not a good idea, but a first offence.

Meanwhile, admitted bully Stephanie is allowed to bully people and then blame them for the bullying.

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

In the diary room she clearly agreed that she had been bullying Gary. So that is now put to bed and the people claiming that it wasn't bullying were wrong.

But why did BB let her get away with saying "he made me bully him."

I think I would have a problem with someone who spits everywhere too, I would just handle it differently...........

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by Pincho Paxton

She didn't think she was bullying, she thought that denial would get her in more trouble.

How do you know that?

We can't guess her thoughts. All we can go by is what she said. She said that his behaviour made her bully him. So she admitted bullying. Anything else is stuff that you are making up.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by jessicadanielle

Why does it mean that?

Because how on earth can someone "make" you bully them? It makes no sense.

The whole point of bullying is an unfair advantage on one side/unprovoked attacks.

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

Where is the consistency?

Emily was ejected at 3am with no knickers on because she said the N word in a jokey rap song type way. Not a good idea, but a first offence.

Meanwhile, admitted bully Stephanie is allowed to bully people and then blame them for the bullying.

oh slow down for fsakes, this is all reaching a bit, I would have aproblem with a guy who spits everywhere too, they just need to control him a bit more

[Pincho Paxton]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

How do you know that?

We can't guess her thoughts. All we can go by is what she said. She said that his behaviour made her bully him. So she admitted bullying. Anything else is stuff that you are making up.

Body language, and spaces between spoken words. Judi James isn't the only person who can read people. The longer the space between words, the harder it is to say those words. She didn't want to say she was bullying, but felt that she had to.

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by Miranda123

I think I would have a problem with someone who spits everywhere too, I would just handle it differently...........

You make allowances for a brain damaged person though.

I once saw an episode of Oprah about a young college girl who had an car accident that damaged her brain. Her father said the worst thing he had to deal with was his daughter constantly making sexual advances toward him.

That is an extreme case, but it shows the way it can takeaway normal inhibitions and filters.

Decent people make allowances. Nasty people like stephanie use it as an excuse to bully weaker people.

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by Pincho Paxton

Body language, and spaces between spoken words. Judi James isn't the only person who can read people. The longer the space between words, the harder it is to say those words. She didn't want to say she was bullying, but felt that she had to.

Perhaps those words were hard to say because she was ashamed of herself and reluctant to admit to the audience that she was bullying.

[Pincho Paxton]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

Perhaps those words were hard to say because she was ashamed of herself and reluctant to admit to the audience that she was bullying.

Apart from the spaces between words her eyes gave away that she didn't believe what she was having to say. You combine the two things together.

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by Pincho Paxton

Apart from the spaces between words her eyes gave away that she didn't believe what she was having to say. You combine the two things together.

I thought her eyes were showing embarrassment and shame at people knowing she was a bully.

All we can know for certain is that she admitted to bullying and BB warned her and accepted what she said.

If you want to combine things together then the combination of BB thinking she was bullying (and they watch 24 hours) and Stephanie admitting it, is a hell of a convincing combination.

[Forgetmenot]

Originally Posted by Miranda123

oh slow down for fsakes, this is all reaching a bit, I would have aproblem with a guy who spits everywhere too, they just need to control him a bit more

I see men spitting in the streets often. I thought it was unlawful but never seen or heard of any one being arrested..then there are all those who spit out gum, evidenced everywhere, especially out side supermarkets, yuk..just thought I'd add my two Penrith worth..carry on folks.

[Jamesy]

I think people are getting carried away in here.

She didn't quite "admit" she was bullying him in the diary room warning segment. She just merely confirmed that she agrees with her behaviour being perceived as bullying. Those are two slightly different things.

She just didn't bother arguing against her behaviour being perceived differently by viewers.

[Chopper1986]

Originally Posted by ThriceShy

You make allowances for a brain damaged person though.

I once saw an episode of Oprah about a young college girl who had an car accident that damaged her brain. Her father said the worst thing he had to deal with was his daughter constantly making sexual advances toward him.

That is an extreme case, but it shows the way it can takeaway normal inhibitions and filters.

Decent people make allowances. Nasty people like stephanie use it as an excuse to bully weaker people.

Here here !!!! The poor guys undeserving of this and so far I've yet to see Gary spit "everywhere " . Stephanie is a nasty piece of work always had been even from her days in the hills she would victimise and back stab people then use feeble exscuses to justify her behaviour as is here now !

And big brother has not done enough to put the matter to bed , she really deserves punishment of some sort instead of being treated like a super popular powered celeb who we'd all miss, kick her to the Kirb and get shot of het

[puzzled]

Originally Posted by Pincho Paxton

Body language, and spaces between spoken words. Judi James isn't the only person who can read people. The longer the space between words, the harder it is to say those words. She didn't want to say she was bullying, but felt that she had to.

[puzzled]

It's amazing how most of these people cave because they don't want to lose the money. Yes, yes, Big Brother, I'm a POS.

[joeysteele]

Whatever way she meant it, she came across really badly. It is just a pity she didn't go out on friday for me.

[ThriceShy]

Originally Posted by Jamesy

I think people are getting carried away in here.

She didn't quite "admit" she was bullying him in the diary room warning segment. She just merely confirmed that she agrees with her behaviour being perceived as bullying. Those are two slightly different things.

She just didn't bother arguing against her behaviour being perceived differently by viewers.

No she clearly stated that his behaviour made her bully him. A definitive admission that bullying took place.