[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Miranda123

I think I would have a problem with someone who spits everywhere too, I would just handle it differently...........

..this is it though isn't it Miranda..it's not that you can't understand irritations and annoyances with him, it's how they've all acted with those and how it's become a complete intolerance for all of them...and for me it's nothing to do with age or respect because we had this with Ashleigh and her being so much younger/the youngest .....it's that he has got an impairment/disability regardless of age.. which other housemates in the past have also had and been extended consideration for that but Gary hasn't been at all...I think the truth of it is and for whatever their reasons..(which may feel valid to them..)...many don't like him so if you don't like someone, it makes it ok to treat them the way they have with Gary..?..considerations/tolerance/understandings only apply when you like someone..?...it's just been so wrong and worrying that 'adults' can succumb to the 'playground pack' situation and lose all their empathy in their personal dislike for that person/justify their behaviour to themselves somehow...