[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Raph

Thing is, with one direction he genuinely weren't talented. That being said, someone like Ben Haenow who's obviously attractive has a large male fanbase. I'm going to see if there are any psychological studies on things like this.. Would be interesting to see factual evidence, either way.

You've missed my point completely Raph. I'm not saying men are jealous of One Direction, I'm saying that their reason for disliking them probably is because their **** and people accept that but people don't accept the same for a woman if she hates a good looking female musician, it's almost always put down to jealousy even though it makes no sense what so ever because there's a whole host of very attractive female musicians that women do like just like there are good looking female reality TV star that women like but still women are always accused of being jealous if they dislike a goodlooking female Reality TV Star

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

Look at the women getting defensive

But no, I'd genuinely say it was an equal thing, I'll admit to being jealous of other men a few times.. either because of looks, who their partner is, their success/wealth.

Women do get accused of it more, but i think that's because jealous women are much more obvious than jealous men.

It's actually a subject that really pisses me off and I don't think you'd really understand unless you're a woman. This whole casual sexism thing that goes on so much without people really being sexist but its just "normal". Like another example by my husband again lol (he's not that bad really) was my 14 year old daughter was talking about food she'd buy when she was an adult and getting her own food shopping and Gav says to her "Oh you better marry a rich man so" luckily I've taught my daughter better than that and her reply was "I'll be making my own money" but if it had been my son who he was having the conversation with do you reckon he would have said "Oh you better marry a rich woman" ? of course he wouldn't and I wouldn't mind, my daughter is a straight A student and the most into school over either of the boys, it's insulting eventhough it's not intended to be and is meant to be a joke

[Kyle]

This is usually the time when Harry Hill shouts "FIGHT" then a big blow up woman comes out of one door and a huge blow up man comes out another.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

Look at the women getting defensive

But no, I'd genuinely say it was an equal thing, I'll admit to being jealous of other men a few times.. either because of looks, who their partner is, their success/wealth.

Women do get accused of it more, but i think that's because jealous women are much more obvious than jealous men.

Yep. That's been my experience. Liamh.

[Kyle]

I don't know if any of you have watched that film Lovelace (I was made to watch it by a woman it wasn't my choice) but the man on that who is Linda Lovelace's partner kinda reminds me of the strong male jealous type that can be very dangerous. He would beat her and all sorts, it wasn't good to watch at all. Some men are like that, always touching their partner in public, keeping them really close and trying to speak for them at every opportunity. Disgrace to the gender tbh.

[LukeB]

I say both because I believe everyone is equal

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It's actually a subject that really pisses me off and I don't think you'd really understand unless you're a woman. This whole casual sexism thing that goes on so much without people really being sexist but its just "normal". Like another example by my husband again lol (he's not that bad really) was my 14 year old daughter was talking about food she'd buy when she was an adult and getting her own food shopping and Gav says to her "Oh you better marry a rich man so" luckily I've taught my daughter better than that and her reply was "I'll be making my own money" but if it had been my son who he was having the conversation with do you reckon he would have said "Oh you better marry a rich woman" ? of course he wouldn't and I wouldn't mind, my daughter is a straight A student and the most into school over either of the boys, it's insulting eventhough it's not intended to be and is meant to be a joke

I was actually joking.. but you don't have to be a certain gender to understand sexism, i grew up surrounded by women, i like to think that i have a more vast knowledge of women and how they think/work than the average man, i know how infuriating it could be.. but i don't really think that suggesting women are jealous of other women is a sexist thing, more just people being ignorant.

[Natalie.]

Equal, some people are better at hiding it than others

[InOne]

Women definitely comment on the physical appearance of other women more. But mainly in individual ways.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

I was actually joking.. but you don't have to be a certain gender to understand sexism, i grew up surrounded by women, i like to think that i have a more vast knowledge of women and how they think/work than the average man, i know how infuriating it could be.. but i don't really think that suggesting women are jealous of other women is a sexist thing, more just people being ignorant.

of course it's a sexist thing, it may not be intentionally sexist or maliciously so but it's still sexism

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Exactly (not that I dislike Kendra or Nadia yet anyway, have only seen one episode so far!) Women are awful jealous of these good looking women yet Ashley Roberts was a firm favourite in her year and probably would have won if Charlies daughter hadn't been been paraded around at the eleventh hour how is that logical?

I really liked Ashley too Niamh,as did I Charlie,I like a lot of attractive girls but they have to have a decent personality to go with it,sometimes you find attractive people are very up themselves as they know they get by due to their looks .

[Creggle]

Men are so much worse, like you wouldn't even believe the hate some guys have for other men they feel are 'better' than themselves, it's pretty worrying when you see it, especially in friends/family you care about. Worst part is that men will do more than just 'bitch' about the person given the chance, I don't believe a woman would really do anything beyond that when jealous. Also, when 'bitching' a woman vents out her frustrations however misguided they may be, a bloke will bottle it up and it will eat away at him.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Creggle

Men are so much worse, like you wouldn't even believe the hate some guys have for other men they feel are 'better' than themselves, it's pretty worrying when you see it, especially in friends/family you care about. Worst part is that men will do more than just 'bitch' about the person given the chance, I don't believe a woman would really do anything beyond that when jealous. Also, when 'bitching' a woman vents out her frustrations however misguided they may be, a bloke will bottle it up and it will eat away at him.

Thank God for you Creg - I was beginning to feel lonely.

[Raph]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

I was actually joking.. but you don't have to be a certain gender to understand sexism, i grew up surrounded by women, i like to think that i have a more vast knowledge of women and how they think/work than the average man, i know how infuriating it could be.. but i don't really think that suggesting women are jealous of other women is a sexist thing, more just people being ignorant.

I completely disagree with your last point. Whilst yes it can be sexist to jump to that conclusion, it doesn't indicate ignorance by any means.

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Raph

I completely disagree with your last point. Whilst yes it can be sexist to jump to that conclusion, it doesn't indicate ignorance by any means.

If someone says that every single woman is jealous of another woman, just because they're women.. then that is ignorant in my eyes, it's taking into account only one variable of a situation and coming up with a completely wrong idea of why someone might be reacting the way they are and that is ignorant.

[Daniel.]

Both

[LukeB]

Both get jealous the same amount. Does it matter though? who gets jealous more. You can't control your own feelings and that. some boys take jealously a bit to far then girls but both equally jealous.

[Raph]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

If someone says that every single woman is jealous of another woman, just because they're women.. then that is ignorant in my eyes, it's taking into account only one variable of a situation and coming up with a completely wrong idea of why someone might be reacting the way they are and that is ignorant.

Who said that lol

[JoshBB]

Didn't see the equal option, otherwise I would have putten that.

Men are jealous of each other for dick size and how "manly" one another is.
Women tend to be jealous based off of how pretty one another is.

This doesn't apply to all men or all women, but they tends to be the main reasons behind it all.

[Marsh.]

Jealous of dick size.

I don't tend to see how big other guys dick's are. Apart from the ones that wear them on their head.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Jealous of dick size.

I don't tend to see how big other guys dick's are. Apart from the ones that wear them on their head.

[JoshBB]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Jealous of dick size.

I don't tend to see how big other guys dick's are. Apart from the ones that wear them on their head.

You've never heard men going "oh im like 8 inches!!!1" or the occasional awful liar who will say 12.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by JoshBB

You've never heard men going "oh im like 8 inches!!!1" or the occasional awful liar who will say 12.

Yeah, but there never tends to be "jealousy" because you never actually see how big people are.

People who sit there bragging about their package and sex life tend to 99% of the time be lying anyway.

[Kyle]

I'm 5 and a half inches take that all of you

[Kyle]

Oh wait I read the tape measure wrong, it was in centimetres.