[joeysteele]

She hasn't been bullying in the house but she has been harassing in a threatening way at times, no matter her provocation,that's where I stop being fair in any way as to her.

She is however an on paper bully, because she uses her privileged time and writing in her career to pick on people who are weaker, more vulnerable and far poorer than her with not a single piece of compassion or understanding from her for them.
People who also haven't the means at all to address her verbal assaults and put downs of them so she knows they cannot fight back either really.

That is as pretty near to a bullying nature you can likely get.
So, no I haven't forgotten her very and totally uncalled for public nasty side at all.