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Originally Posted by lostalex

but how many men feel objectified or devalued when women leer at them, vs. how many women feel objectified and devalued and demeaned when men leer at them.

There is a difference. You are speaking as if we live in a world where men and women are equal.

Maybe more women than men feel uncomfortable but it would be a gross simplification to say that all men love it and all women hate it. Some men feel very uncomfortable with it, some women enjoy it.

Again, in my opinion, to ever achieve any meaningful equality we have to start judging situations based on individuals and stop lumping people into broad "men this" and "Women that" categories. Generalisation completely misses the point.