[Amy Jade]

I am honestly shocked to see people defend what he said. Seriously like sitting here shaking my head.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

I am honestly shocked to see people defend what he said. Seriously like sitting here shaking my head.

There defending him but wanted Ken and Jeremy kicked out and i think this comment is far worse

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by adamski94

There defending him but wanted Ken and Jeremy kicked out and i think this comment is far worse

Excuse me get your facts straight I thought both expulsions were OTT

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

I am honestly shocked to see people defend what he said. Seriously like sitting here shaking my head.

Okay

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

I am honestly shocked to see people defend what he said. Seriously like sitting here shaking my head.

I'm not defending him, I agree with the warning but my point was he did not say he would rape Calum.

[bots]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

I'm not defending him, I agree with the warning but my point was he did not say he would rape Calum.

we all know what he said, and he got a warning

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

I'm not defending him, I agree with the warning but my point was he did not say he would rape Calum.

bUt comments like that are taken as that

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by adamski94

bUt comments like that are taken as that

Bit of a tongue twister

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Bit of a tongue twister

Filth.

[Stormy]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

I'm not defending him, I agree with the warning but my point was he did not say he would rape Calum.

You are reaching. Sure he didn't say it, he just described exactly how he was going to do it.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Stormy

You are reaching. Sure he didn't say it, he just described exactly how he was going to do it.

Not sure there is any other way

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Stormy

You are reaching. Sure he didn't say it, he just described exactly how he was going to do it.

Call it what you will, I couldn't give a flying **** what you think tbh. That is my opinion.

[DemolitionRed]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

I'm not defending him, I agree with the warning but my point was he did not say he would rape Calum.

Actually Benjamin, that's exactly what he was suggesting. Calum didn't consent to his suggestion Parez still repeated it like a threat. Of course Calum wouldn't feel threatened by Parez but that doesn't matter because a threats a threat. Perez was wrong and deserved a formal warning.

[bots]

If Perez had said I'm going to cut you with a big knife. It would have been considered a threat to stab. Whats the difference?

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

I am honestly shocked to see people defend what he said. Seriously like sitting here shaking my head.

People say a lot of weird crazy stuff when they are angry, i think he said it to try to prove his manhood, i mean Katy has poked fun out of his manhood, we don't know what it's been like for him as a gay man in his youth, he said it to the straightest man in the house, who is built like a brick **** house, lets face it Calum could knock him into next week, some men just say these things, (my husband was online playing call of duty, and was threatened bum rape because he kept winning) i was shocked at this because it's a ridiculous thing to say

My point is that in the heat of the moment people say the most ridiculous things.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

People say a lot of weird crazy stuff when they are angry, i think he said it to try to prove his manhood, i mean Katy has poked fun out of his manhood, we don't know what it's been like for him as a gay man in his youth, he said it to the straightest man in the house, who is built like a brick **** house, lets face it Calum could knock him into next week, some men just say these things, (my husband was online playing call of duty, and was threatened bum rape because he kept winning) i was shocked at this because it's a ridiculous thing to say

My point is that in the heat of the moment people say the most ridiculous things.

Well said, it is why I avoid arguments as best I can. Too much to be mended afterwards and a gross misrepresentation often of the people arguing too.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

People say a lot of weird crazy stuff when they are angry, i think he said it to try to prove his manhood, i mean Katy has poked fun out of his manhood, we don't know what it's been like for him as a gay man in his youth, he said it to the straightest man in the house, who is built like a brick **** house, lets face it Calum could knock him into next week, some men just say these things, (my husband was online playing call of duty, and was threatened bum rape because he kept winning) i was shocked at this because it's a ridiculous thing to say

My point is that in the heat of the moment people say the most ridiculous things.

That excuse doesnt wash with me and wouldnt in a court of law

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by adamski94

That excuse doesnt wash with me and wouldnt in a court of law

Yes mulud

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by adamski94

That excuse doesnt wash with me and wouldnt in a court of law

But you probably have more control of your emotions.....some people don't and say the most ridiculous things.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

But you probably have more control of your emotions.....some people don't and say the most ridiculous things.

This!

[Denver]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

But you probably have more control of your emotions.....some people don't and say the most ridiculous things.

So its ok to sexual assault someone because your not in control of your emotions?

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

People say a lot of weird crazy stuff when they are angry, i think he said it to try to prove his manhood, i mean Katy has poked fun out of his manhood, we don't know what it's been like for him as a gay man in his youth, he said it to the straightest man in the house, who is built like a brick **** house, lets face it Calum could knock him into next week, some men just say these things, (my husband was online playing call of duty, and was threatened bum rape because he kept winning) i was shocked at this because it's a ridiculous thing to say

My point is that in the heat of the moment people say the most ridiculous things.

People do a lot of things in the heat of the moment and still deserve to be punished.

I don't agree it was just a silly off the cuff comment though because he said it over and over again because even when others told him to stop.

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

People do a lot of things in the heat of the moment and still deserve to be punished.

I don't agree it was just a silly off the cuff comment though because he said it over and over again because even when others told him to stop.

I agree with you, but i really don't think Calum would have perceived it as a threat or a danger to his being. I think it started off as an off the cuff comment, but ended up as a bit of peacocking!

[Vanessa]

Perez went way over the line but people have to know that Katie, Callum and Cami are ganging up to provoke him.

[Lampfan]

Originally Posted by rubymoo

I agree with you, but i really don't think Calum would have perceived it as a threat or a danger to his being. I think it started off as an off the cuff comment, but ended up as a bit of peacocking!

Yes, I do wonder if some people have ever been in a heated altercation before. They've lived very sheltered lives or are just desperate to be offended by someone they dont like.