[arista]

Originally Posted by Tom!

You are a lovely person btw, just be careful who you hang out with and I appreciate how you've been a bit calmer and kept the 'sassiness' down, you are a very nice member

Hang out with?


The Gangs Of TIBB

Utter Bollocks


Me
I do not need a Gang

[Headie]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

Yeah in a perfect world you wouldn't be, but as the saying goes, if you lay with dogs you're gonna catch fleas
As for what i don't like, it's the majority of the people's attitudes towards other members, feeling the need to be so awful and spiteful towards people they don't know just to get a laugh, i know it's not all of you because like i said, i happen to like you, but if you openly associate with said people who do those things, it will obviously give the wrong impression of you, whether you think that's right or wrong.

And whenever we do 'beef it out' it causes havoc on here with certain people coming on and derailing discussions that could be had maturely and rationally

I totally understand what you're saying, but I can honestly say there are about 2 or 3 people who have those views and say nasty things to provoke people, and everyone else is actually really friendly and kind if you get to know them. We can't really stop those 2 or 3 people from having their views... if that makes sense...

[T*]

Originally Posted by arista

Hang out with?


The Gangs Of TIBB

Utter Bollocks


Me
I do not need a Gang

because you are a strong independent arista that dont need no gang

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Hayden

There's been a lot of talk about how all the "weaves" are vile people or w/e and I've seen lots of discussions saying bad things about people, but I've never actually had someone take the time to message me and address a problem or issue they have with me.

Ever since the unbannings I've been doing my best to rebuild bridges and try and get along with people again, and I've tried to avoid any sort of dramas that could happen involving me, but I feel like there is still lots of people who are not being upfront or honest and idk, I just want people to be honest with me and settle it out tbh so it can all be done and dusted. I guess the whole being labelled a "bully" thing just doesn't feel good when I've tried hard to restore things back to normal, and I don't like the feeling that I'm being secretly judged because of who I'm friends with

No, i think you're lovely.

[Headie]

Originally Posted by Drew.

I've kinda noticed you've toned down with the sassy talk loads since you've returned and haven't caused any drama which is a good thing but before your ban you were on the verge of becoming ridiculously annoying with it all. Idk, it's just acting one way one minute and than being someone else another minute its kinda hard to get involved with someone that acts different all the time. I've got no complaints about you since your ban though.

Originally Posted by Tom!

You are a lovely person btw, just be careful who you hang out with and I appreciate how you've been a bit calmer and kept the 'sassiness' down, you are a very nice member

Thank you for being so honest, I know exactly what you mean about the 'sassiness' stuff and yeah I've tried to tone it down considerably since being unbanned. Obviously I'm not going to change who I am just to fit in but I definitely am not just "all about dramz and shade xoxo" anymore. However I also don't want to just not acknowledge the people who I've spoke to and have been friendly with ever since joining this forum, just because they are seen as bad people and the minority of them have views which I don't share

[Ross.]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

Hayden you are a great poster and contribute a lot to this forum. If a few people can't take the time to get to know you because of the actions of a few of your friends then it's their loss

This, although we rarely speak anymore I still think you're a great person and contribute a lot to this forum, Hayden

[Headie]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

No, i think you're lovely.

Thank you Vanessa My fellow Perez stan

[Crimson Dynamo]

is the elephant in the room.............................................. .................................................. ............marsh and his hideous bullying ways??

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Hayden

I totally understand what you're saying, but I can honestly say there are about 2 or 3 people who have those views and say nasty things to provoke people, and everyone else is actually really friendly and kind if you get to know them. We can't really stop those 2 or 3 people from having their views... if that makes sense...

Yeah obviously you can't stop them, but to then make excuses for them and pass it off as 'slaying' 'weave snatching' or 'spilling the tea' - which again, i know not all of you do - is imo, just as bad as the act itself, it not only justifies what they do and say, but it gives them an audience to play to.

[Headie]

Originally Posted by Monopoly

This, although we rarely speak anymore I still think you're a great person and contribute a lot to this forum, Hayden

Thank you I wish we spoke more than we do, hopefully when we have another diva to stan in BB16 we can bond more again

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Hayden

Thank you Vanessa My fellow Perez stan

I'm following his blog on twitter. It's amazing!

[Daniel.]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

In before the lock.

You personally? no, the people you associate with? Yes

You don't even know them Liam. The hypocrisy is shocking here, you always used to bitchy heavily when we were friends

Originally Posted by Tom!

[3]

Why do you lick ass in Plug then?

Originally Posted by armand.kay

Hayden you are a great poster and contribute a lot to this forum. If a few people can't take the time to get to know you because of the actions of a few of your friends then it's their loss

I agree with this

[Black Dagger]

Absolutely not. But then I never had a personal reason to hate any of the weaves. I don't really hate anybody on the forum anymore. I used to hate on most on here. But now y'all fab apart from drew, what a knobhead

[Vanessa]

I never hold grudges. I think life is too short for that. At the moment the athmosphere is lovely in here. Of course there will always be arguments and falling outs. It's impossible to get on with everyone.

[Samm]

I only have a go at people when they attack me not bullying and I find it really weird how people can dislike someone from who they like/talk too

[Headie]

Originally Posted by LiamPRW

Yeah obviously you can't stop them, but to then make excuses for them and pass it off as 'slaying' 'weave snatching' or 'spilling the tea' - which again, i know not all of you do - is imo, just as bad as the act itself, it not only justifies what they do and say, but it gives them an audience to play to.

Mhmm, I know and as you've said most of us don't egg them on, but even without people laughing/encouraging them, there's nothing stopping them from still doing what they do and then the majority of us being slandered or looked down upon for something we can't change

Like, if one of your friends got sent to jail, you wouldn't want to be known as a criminal or w/e but you'd still want to talk to your friend because it's almost impossible just to forget everything good they've done and been nice to you

[Jessica.]

I don't like you.

Just answering the question, not trying to cause trouble.

1. Because I always just peoples character on how they let others treat them and how they let their friends influence them.

2. Because you have shown clear dislike to me in the past.

3. Because I don't know you at all.

[T*]

Originally Posted by Daniel_

Why do you lick ass in Plug then?

Okay so having a normal conversation is 'ass licking'
honestly you're so petty
i'm not doing this here

[Vicky.]

Nope. Its obvious from the multi abuse that the main instigators of it all were 2 people, who continue to try and cause trouble even now, which is funny because the excuse used by one of them was that they were causing trouble as they were leaving the forum anyway, yet he still posts nearly everyday

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Nope. Its obvious from the multi abuse that the main instigators of it all were 2 people, who continue to try and cause trouble even now, which is funny because the excuse used by one of them was that they were causing trouble as they were leaving the forum anyway, yet he still posts nearly everyday

That's true.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

Originally Posted by Jessica.

I don't like you.

Because I don't know you at all.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

do i lick ass in plug

[Suze]

I think you are lovely and very likeable, Hayden who you choose to associate with makes no odds whatsoever

[Headie]

Originally Posted by Jessica.

I don't like you.

Just answering the question, not trying to cause trouble.

1. Because I always just peoples character on how they let others treat them and how they let their friends influence them.

2. Because you have shown clear dislike to me in the past.

3. Because I don't know you at all.

Thanks for being honest Jessica

I understand point 3 but I don't entirely agree with 1 or 2. 1 I can partly understand but I'm not going to stop talking to people because they are disliked, if that makes sense...

2 is mainly because you've shown dislike to me in the past too, which I put down to being associated with "the weaves", ironically which is what this thread is about

[T*]

Originally Posted by Rose McGowan

do i lick ass in plug

well according to daniel if you have a normal conversation like you're supposed to do, yes.