[just thinkin]

when aaron and joel had to kiss on the lips. Joel refused blankly to do it, Arron got in a huff and said he was done with him. It shows Joel being uncomfortable from way before the nights episode. Also I don't think it was the actual running around naked that got Arron thrown it - it think it was when he took it way to far and jumped on joel. Harriet is getting blamed here too, but nobody mentions Sarah egging Aaron on to do it again before he was called to the diary room. Joel was correct in what he did by telling the truth about how he felt. It was right that Aaron was evicted. It went way past the boundaries of acceptable, but I can't help feeling bad for him - he must be in a state - it could ruin his life. Maybe this show should be axed for the sake of the housemates. I hope they take care of Aaron now and help him through this.

[waterhog]

you can not legislate for what people might do. i am sorry but arron has to take responsibility.

the kissing on the lips was one more back up for joel and not wanting to encourage him.

as for axing the show - get a grip - this is a minor and has got everyone talking. well done BB. i am hooked and can not ait to tune in tonight.

[just thinkin]

i think you should read my post again - I am actually saying that it was aarons fault. you must have misread my post.

I say I feel bad for Aaron (I didn't say it wasn't his fault). I feel bad because this will stay with him for a long time. It could ruin his life. It won't be an easy thing to shrug off - he's gonna have a hard time and I hope bb is there for him to help him through what he is going to go through because of it. If BB ruins peoples lives maybe its time to axe the show instead of treating people like props. At no point did I say aarons actions were right.

[waterhog]

Originally Posted by just thinkin

i think you should read my post again - I am actually saying that it was aarons fault. you must have misread my post.

I say I feel bad for Aaron (I didn't say it wasn't his fault). I feel bad because this will stay with him for a long time. It could ruin his life. It won't be an easy thing to shrug off - he's gonna have a hard time and I hope bb is there for him to help him through what he is going to go through because of it. If BB ruins peoples lives maybe its time to axe the show instead of treating people like props. At no point did I say aarons actions were right.

i am sorry but this does not make sense - are you saying don't air on a soap a robbery incase it encourages people - don't show drinking in a pub itcase it makes people alcoholics ?

we are in agreement then that arron has to take responsibility.

as for axing the show because it has ruined peoples lifes ? you can say that about anything. ie the person who did not win a million on who wants to be a millionaire has had his life ruined etc............


all boils down to my point - personal responsibility.

[rionablue]

Originally Posted by just thinkin

when aaron and joel had to kiss on the lips. Joel refused blankly to do it, Arron got in a huff and said he was done with him. It shows Joel being uncomfortable from way before the nights episode. Also I don't think it was the actual running around naked that got Arron thrown it - it think it was when he took it way to far and jumped on joel. Harriet is getting blamed here too, but nobody mentions Sarah egging Aaron on to do it again before he was called to the diary room. Joel was correct in what he did by telling the truth about how he felt. It was right that Aaron was evicted. It went way past the boundaries of acceptable, but I can't help feeling bad for him - he must be in a state - it could ruin his life. Maybe this show should be axed for the sake of the housemates. I hope they take care of Aaron now and help him through this.

I agree with most of this post just thinking ( and we don't often agree ) except the axing of the show. They vet the housemates and explain in great detail the rules of the house. The housemates have to sign and accept these rules before entering. Therefore if they are broken to a point like last night the housemate can be ejected

[just thinkin]

Originally Posted by waterhog

i am sorry but this does not make sense - are you saying don't air on a soap a robbery incase it encourages people - don't show drinking in a pub itcase it makes people alcoholics ?

we are in agreement then that arron has to take responsibility.

as for axing the show because it has ruined peoples lifes ? you can say that about anything. ie the person who did not win a million on who wants to be a millionaire has had his life ruined etc............


all boils down to my point - personal responsibility.

we're not talking about professional actors getting paid to act out a part on a soap - we're talking about civilian people. I don't think you get my point as your examples above are bizarre. so let's just agree to disagree. I do agree on one point - Aronn is responsible for his actions and it was correct to eject him.

[Patricia4]

just thinkin I agree it was Aaron it was correct to eject him but the other's didn't help the matter laughing about it.