[Mokka]

well, I can see that your account doesn't allow me to pm you, you must have your settings set up for email instead of personal messaging on the forum...

Go to your own account, and hit the customize profile button located at the top of your wall on the right.

There will be a list of options on the left, choose edit options
Under Messaging and Notifications, in the first box, you may want to de-select allowing users to send you emails, or keep it selected if you choose....

In the third box titled Private Messaging, check the enable private messaging box

Look through the rest of the page and see if there are any other modifications you want to make,

then make sure to scroll to the bottom and and select save changes.... this is the most important, otherwise all was for not !!