[Ammi]

Originally Posted by jaxie

I dont really view them in the same way and I don't think Jack deserved what she did and said. After the incident with Chloe, Harry went looking for a further fight with Jack. He's not her in house 'boyfriend love rabbit' so he doesn't really have to put up with her ****. He was hurt because a close friend said he was untrustworthy in her eyes. He is entitled to have feelings and express them. I don't have any problems with him passing comment or complaining about nomination reasons, he isn't the only one to do it, many of them do it, no one really likes it, particularly Joel, but Jack is the one constantly vilified for it. I think it's fairly human to question criticism.

Going back to Harry and Nick he's very young and her mood swings must be hard to deal with and we can't deny she's moody. I dont think he has the experience or emotional range to deal with her but that isn't necessarily a bad thing or fault, I think a lot of people would struggle with such a volatile partner. I don't think love or close friendship means you must agree with the other person even when they behave badly relationships don't work like that and often its the people we are closest to who call us on our ****. As to cuddles sometimes we just need a bit of space after high drama and its not the time for kissing and making up. I don't think Nick was deliberately trying to make her look bad, honestly I think she manages that quite well on her own. I think he genuinely just wanted a break and probably didn't put much more thought into it than that.

..yeah we don't view it the same way but isn't that the 'magic' of BB and people watching at it's ultimate because we all see the same things but view them differently for many reasons, I think....before anything further with Harry and Jack, Nick had already very vocally called her a hypocrite and kept repeating it and repeating it immediately afterwards in full Victor Meldrew mode to anyone who would listen to him....'I don't belieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeve it/she did/said that....'....well yes she did say it, she did do it and immediately owned 'hypocrite' but it wasn't as if she does it all of the time and constantly...it was more or less a one off thing and Nick immediately pounced on it/immediately called it etc and no I don't deny that she has very complicated moods and emotions, which he so quickly picks up on and points out 'to the public' with no delay and every single time..(imo..)...with friends like that, who needs enemies etc.... you're right, Harry does very well on her own so why the need from Nick to be constantly both reinforcing it to her and the public all of the time...you know, when all is said and done, isn't he meant to be her friend and it was a tough and rough evening for her more than anyone else, whether she brought any or all of it on herself doesn't really matter in a true friendship which is what he's portrayed to have with her...he played a large part in that tough evening himself by so quickly calling what was quite a rare hypocritical moment from what I've seen of her in the house in such an awful way...and then took himself off from giving her any comfort at all...she was right, there was no reason for him to change beds other than for me he's trying to distance himself from her because he's worried about himself in their friendship....that's been something that has been quite consistent with Nick and much more consistent than any hypocrisy from Harry... she 'owns' who she is/her character and he does not at all with his...