[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

But everyone here is your friend so obviously it's the former

Everyone is my friend, I'm open to everyone no matter how odd, rude or obnoxious, I'm a people person

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Everyone is my friend, I'm open to everyone no matter how odd, rude or obnoxious, I'm a people person

Not a judgemental person who would label someone by how often they change their avatar then?

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Not a judgemental person who would label someone by how often they change their avatar then?

Tsk.. I said open not judgy I'll leave that to others, I can interact on all levels...it's a gift

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Tsk.. I said open not judgy I'll leave that to others, I can interact on all levels...it's a gift

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Kaz has had loads... I think those who keep the same are pretentious and weird.

K

[Livia]

Make a decision and stick to it.

[karl100589]

I'm a bit of both, I change my avatar whenever a new series is upcoming but still keep pretty much the same format in the design.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

K

Hey... are you saying I'm judging people here?

Being weird isn't always a bad thing, don't be such a negative nelly.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Hey... are you saying I'm judging people here?

Being weird isn't always a bad thing, don't be such a negative nelly.

Yes that's exactly what I'm saying, how is labelling people by how often they change their avatar not judging people?

How about pertentious? Is that good too?

[Lostie!]

Originally Posted by Livia

Make a decision and stick to it.

No.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Lostie!

No.

Don't you give me attitude, Lostie

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yes that's exactly what I'm saying, how is labelling people by how often they change their avatar not judging people?

How about pertentious? Is that good too?

Again, I can think something without judging.... if people wish to appear pretentious or weird who am I to say it's wrong?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Again, I can think something without judging.... if people wish to appear pretentious or weird who am I to say it's wrong?

But you are judging, you are judging peoples personality by how often they change their avatar which is completely ridiculous

[lostalex]

I change my ava and siggy every few months, but i think everyone still recognizes me. i use the same ones over and over.

People pretty much know me around here.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

But you are judging, you are judging peoples personality by how often they change their avatar which is completely ridiculous

Just because you repeat that you think I'm judging doesn't make it so Niamh
That would be totally nonsensical.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Just because you repeat that you think I'm judging doesn't make it so Niamh
That would be totally nonsensical.

it's not nonsensical at all, what she said makes perfect sense.

You were judging people based on how often they change avas... weren't you?

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by lostalex

it's not nonsensical at all, what she said makes perfect sense.

You were judging people based on how often they change avas... weren't you?

No.

[Niamh.]

You weren't? What were you doing then when you said people who don't change their avatars are pretentious and weird?

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

You weren't? What were you doing then when you said people who don't change their avatars are pretentious and weird?

that sounded like a judgment to me. all opinions are judgements, and that was certainly an opinion at the very least.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by lostalex

that sounded like a judgment to me. all opinions are judgements, and that was certainly an opinion at the very least.

I agree, we all judge, I just think it's not a very good way to judge a persons personality traits by how often they change their avatar. If I were to make a judgement on people who don't change their avatars, I'd say it's because they like the one they have

[Kizzy]

Yes it was an opinion, nothing more nothing less.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I agree, we all judge, I just think it's not a very good way to judge a persons personality traits by how often they change their avatar. If I were to make a judgement on people who don't change their avatars, I'd say it's because they like the one they have

I think mostly it's because they are more interested in actually contributing to the conversations, and talking to other members, and less worried about impressing people with fancy new gifs.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Yes it was an opinion, nothing more nothing less.

It was a judgement, you decided what personality a person has by how often they changed their avatar, that is a judgement no matter how much you protest

[Black Dagger]

I can never be bothered with changing it. I will have my current avatar long after he's left the bloody club.

[lostalex]

i think for the most part, the people that have made an identity here, have an identity, and those that don't, don't.

Honestly, i've been here for about 5 years now, and I can probably name only 10 people i recognize right away.

Most people on this forum just fade into the background.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It was a judgement, you decided what personality a person has by how often they changed their avatar, that is a judgement no matter how much you protest

No... you're looking too deeply into this Niamh, there was no psychoanalysis of any personalities going on.