[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Mokka

Is Ex- Mrs. LT now Mrs. LT again

He does seem to have become less.... vitriolic towards her. Maybe it's halloween which is mellowing him towards her Mokka.

[Ninastar]

Depends. If people seem genuine and try to change their horrible behaviour or whatever, then yes, I'll forgive them. But if someone says they will change and continue to act the same, I wont forgive them and I'll carry on my life without them.

[Denver]

I can forgive but I'll never forget.

[Kizzy]

I thought I was but I'm not very good at it, I don't bother with exes or anything.

[T*]

I think so, but I tend to hold grudges also

[Jason.]

I'd like to think I usually am quite forgiving, but there are times where I can be a bit stubborn if I'm in a bad mood and take a while to forgive or hold what they've done against that person.

[Kate!]

Depends what they have done. Usually yes.

[Kazanne]

It depends , something heinous then no chance , but everyday ,petty stuff I can forgive , you have to really, otherwise you get bent out of shape.

[Cal.]

Too forgiving.

[Liam-]

Depends what it is, if it's something serious, I tend to try and forgive but I still hold said person at arms length afterwards.

[Xtopher]

I'm a professional at holding grudges. Very rarely I do forgive.

[user104658]

Forgive people yes but don't forget, and don't be surprised if they do exactly the same thing again no matter how much they've apologised. People don't change.

[Marsh.]

I am forgiving, perhaps too forgiving. But when it comes to big things I don't forget even if I wanted to.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I am forgiving, perhaps too forgiving. But when it comes to big things I don't forget even if I wanted to.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

So let that be a warning.

[Jake.]

Yeah, I'm awful for remembering things people have done/holding grudges though, I find it pretty hard to move past something

[DemolitionRed]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

I'm the same - you 'oribble, argumentative, trouble-causing cow. Just kidding Red.

Yes we can get annoyed, irritated, frustrated and angry by arguing online, but holding a grudge is silly.

I've got a great deal of respect for you Kirk because you and me can go at it hammer and tongue and still come up shaking hands I just wish more people were like that.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Forgive people yes but don't forget, and don't be surprised if they do exactly the same thing again no matter how much they've apologised. People don't change.

So true.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

So let that be a warning.

the wrath of Marsh

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by DemolitionRed

I've got a great deal of respect for you Kirk because you and me can go at it hammer and tongue and still come up shaking hands I just wish more people were like that.

Thanks Red - The respect is mutual. I AM self-opinionated but I KNOW I am not always right, but that describes all those who frequent Serious Debate.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

So let that be a warning.

[Livia]

It depends solely on the offence as to whether I forgive or not. And if I don't forgive I'll need revenge... but not for a while. Like Demolition Red says, it is different online, although some things that have been said will never be forgiven. Liars are different... once someone's lied and been found out (without fessing up, because that's a totally different scenario) then I will assume they are always lying.