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Have you not heard of the saying "You have to be cruel to be kind sometimes"

This is where Daniellla is coming from. she is pointing out to Steph her short commings and how her behaviour, and not just with whole Jeremy thing, can be percieved to the outside world. Who in their right mind is going to employ someone who behaves in the manner that Steph has. Her sacking from Hollyoaks should have been a wake up call but it seems she is on a self destruct rampage of which no amount of sweet talking is going to stop her. Time to get tough..
Danielle can actually see a reflection of her former self in Steph and is trying to stop her making the same mistakes. Like any mother berating a child it doesnt sound nice but sometimes it is needed....Though it would appear at the moment Steph is just not listening....