[Ammi]

Originally Posted by hot2go

I am one of the few who still believe there was something real in them getting together, I don't think it was just for a showmance, even if it doesn't last. ....but dying her hair blonde says more about Stephanie than anything else could.....makes me question everything about her .....if I fell in love with someone and then they immediately changed their entire appearance then I would wanna dump them....if I was trying to start a career in the media the last thing I would do would be to create a new image before I've even established the image I was discovered with.
If she cares for Jeremy then why has she just immediately obliterated the very looks he fell in love with...that is just giving someone what they really want and them immediately taking it away from them, just because you fancy a change yourself.
And changing ones image before you've even established yourself yet is not only incredibly stupid but also arrogant...
I liked Steph but for me, the hair situation does her no favours at all and destroys my belief that she would grow up once she was with Jeremy.

...hmmm, it might just be a different hair colour/a complete contrast from brunette to blonde but when we do these things, I think we have to do them for ourselves...especially with such and extreme of colouring because the most important thing is how it makes us feel, how much confidence etc and whether we feel good and feel we look good/suit it...of course, if we have a partner then it's always lovely if they prefer the look as well but whether it be a partner/friend etc, or whoever who may say they love something about us/a physical appearance thing...we're not going to feel good about ourselves or feel what they say unless we feel it too...


..I don't think it's an arrogant thing either in terms of her establishing herself, as you say...again I think it's simply something she wanted to do/be blonde and if she's going to become 'established' she will anyway, either as a blonde or a brunette...when you think about it also, she was already established as a brunette and that being established as a brunette took her to a decision to go into the BB house and maybe look at her career, which way she wanted to go forward etc... and her blonde look maybe a first step in that because she's putting 'brunette' aside for the moment to explore something new..?.....

...we love our partners, she may have genuine deep feelings for him but more than anything, we have to be ourselves/true to ourselves and our decisions for them to love us...