[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I agree with all that, apart from fully blaming the woman? the responsibility lies 50/50 between the couple, he could have worn a condom, or got the snip, at least she is still there....

He could have worn a condom,She could have refused to sleep with him until he did,She could have gone to the docs for proper contraception.

He could have got the snip?That's a big step and not one i would make until i was sure i would'nt ever want to have another kid.What if they split up and he got a new partner and they wanted a child together?That's like saying she could have had her womb removed.Contraception is much easier and less permanent.