[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

I'm not physically high maintenance like my Dad, my Niece, and my Nephew who all love the odd bit of running around shall I say.

I do however chat to my Mom for so long about anything and everything that it tires her out.

....awwwww, I reckon that it's a tired out that she treasures though Mock, something that she wouldn't change one little bit of......

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Ammi

....awwwww, I reckon that it's a tired out that she treasures though Mock, something that she wouldn't change one little bit of......

Haha thanks Ammi.

Between me and Twitter it makes me interested to hear what's more high maintenance for her?

Do you know anyone that might be high maintenance Ammi? If you don't mind me asking of course?

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Haha thanks Ammi.

Between me and Twitter it makes me interested to hear what's more high maintenance for her?

Do you know anyone that might be high maintenance Ammi? If you don't mind me asking of course?

....hmmm, I'm not sure that I do..I might say it to someone as a throw away remark but it's not something that I would generally mean though...the 'maintenance' of someone, high maintenance..?..(for me..)..is more the perspective that I would be seeing them from, maybe a lack of patience because I was tired as a for instance..?.../that sort of thing ...I guess that I could describe some people that I know as high maintenance in that they may be quite dependent or 'needy'..?...but I don't think that would be being fair to them because there are reasons for how they are as well....


...so no..(you just knew that you wouldn't get a quick answer, now didn't you....)...yeah, I'm high maintenance, I over-think quite a bit.../I exhaust myself tbh...I wish I was a little bit lower maintenance...

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Ammi

....hmmm, I'm not sure that I do..I might say it to someone as a throw away remark but it's not something that I would generally mean though...the 'maintenance' of someone, high maintenance..?..(for me..)..is more the perspective that I would be seeing them from, maybe a lack of patience because I was tired as a for instance..?.../that sort of thing ...I guess that I could describe some people that I know as high maintenance in that they may be quite dependent or 'needy'..?...but I don't think that would be being fair to them because there are reasons for how they are as well....


...so no..(you just knew that you wouldn't get a quick answer, now didn't you....)...yeah, I'm high maintenance, I over-think quite a bit.../I exhaust myself tbh...I wish I was a little bit lower maintenance...

I get what you're saying with the whole perspective of who's high maintenance and who isn't.

I actually suffer on mental high maintenance like you do Ammi, sometimes I have so many ideas going on in my head that I end up doing none of the things that I plan on doing.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

I get what you're saying with the whole perspective of who's high maintenance and who isn't.

I actually suffer on mental high maintenance like you do Ammi, sometimes I have so many ideas going on in my head that I end up doing none of the things that I plan on doing.

....hmmmm..(maybe..)..when you have the thoughts, you could think about writing them down..?.../keeping a little 'thought journal', type thing Mock..?...then you could focus on one thought at a time, starting with one that you feel needs attention/action and that you feel you could sort out..?..then you could move to another one and another etc but I think as well what you would probably find is that many of those thoughts are just thoughts of a moment and not something that need anything doing about, so you'll be able to just cross those right through and know that they don't have to be in your head anymore because they're nothing really...just 'stuff' that we think about etc...?...but that way as well, you wouldn't get the feeling that you end up doing none of the things that you planned..?...