[Amy Jade]

I'm going to get banned this year I can feel it if I even debate with certain 'people'.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

I'm going to get banned this year I can feel it if I even debate with certain 'people'.

well if you take that "attitude" you will get banned i am sure

just treat everyone as lovely and nice and you will be fine

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

well if you take that "attitude" you will get banned i am sure

just treat everyone as lovely and nice and you will be fine

Baiting me won't work.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Baiting me won't work.

Im telling you good advice

Just be kind to everyone and the ban hammer will stay away

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Im telling you good advice

Just be kind to everyone and the ban hammer will stay away

Thanks but I don't want your advice.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Thanks but I don't want your advice.

what did i say about being nice

[crazycolaist]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Im telling you good advice

Just be kind to everyone and the ban hammer will stay away

You aint nobody's mother and your certainly not a moderator so jog on bro lmao.

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

well if you take that "attitude" you will get banned i am sure

just treat everyone as lovely and nice and you will be fine

You know that not everybody has a "lovely" attitude when it comes to BB.

Some people really show themselves up and try to humiliate other members, I've had it done to me and I've seen people try it on other members too over the years that I've been on here.

[VanessaFeltz.]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

You know that not everybody has a "lovely" attitude when it comes to BB.

Some people really show themselves up and try to humiliate other members, I've had it done to me and I've seen people try it on other members too over the years that I've been on here.

oh yeah someone made racist comments about me (just based on my country) because i said if a woman lays their hand on some man, that man had a right to defend himself. he only got a warning when i got the same treatment just because i changed someones quote.


and this came from a fellow lgbt member it is sad that a minority member can use that disgusting language

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by MelihV

oh yeah someone made racist comments about me (just based on my country) because i said if a woman lays their hand on some man, that man had a right to defend himself. he only got a warning when i got the same treatment just because i changed someones quote.


and this came from a fellow lgbt member it is sad that a minority member can use that disgusting language

Sadly sometimes is that the ones fighting for equal rights can be their own worst enemy as with this one that targeted you for speaking common sense.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

I'm going to get banned this year I can feel it if I even debate with certain 'people'.

You're good with debating so you will be fine and if you're going to react its obviously because someone is trying to bait/patronise you.

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

I'm going to get banned this year I can feel it if I even debate with certain 'people'.

Just try to ignore them if you feel like they're gonna get you banned.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Just try to ignore them if you feel like they're gonna get you banned.

Good advice Mock,I try to do that most of the time sometimes I have a rant,but seriously I cant be arsed most of the time as it's blindingly obvious some members are a target. people may not like others opinions but this is a forum so everyone has the right to state theirs whether people like it or not and I honestly think some people enjoy having a go.

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Good advice Mock,I try to do that most of the time sometimes I have a rant,but seriously I cant be arsed most of the time as it's blindingly obvious some members are a target. people may not like others opinions but this is a forum so everyone has the right to state theirs whether people like it or not and I honestly think some people enjoy having a go.

I agree that people's opinions that are not with the general consensus need to be accepted more on here as certain members can't seem to handle it very well without being directly rude to that particular member (I've had it happen to me) and I've seen it happen to other members that dare to go against the general consensus of TIBB's opinions too which isn't on.

I think what needs to start happening on here is that people need to accept differences of opinions and debate them more rationally (even if it's a bit more duller lol) and we need members that have their opinions challenged to get less defensive when it happens too as I've seen countless times on this thread where people don't like their opinions being challenged when the whole point of a Forum is for debates.

Basically in short I agree with the BIB Kazanne.

[reece(:]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Just try to ignore them if you feel like they're gonna get you banned.

Only YOU can get yourself banned, don't fool yourself into thinking it's others doing

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by reece(:

Only YOU can get yourself banned, don't fool yourself into thinking it's others doing

If a member is deliberately harassing you and deliberately winding you up and then you get banned whilst they get let off scott free then it's an injustice and you've become a victim.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

If a member is deliberately harassing you and deliberately winding you up and then you get banned whilst they get let off scott free then it's an injustice and you've become a victim.