[AnnieK]

I've sat in a packed pub tonight as the only in in a wave of outs. I've said my piece, they've said theirs and there was none of the bitterness and bile that there is in this thread....I understand their reasonings and they mine....yes there tried to assure me of this and that...but at the end of the day it's happened .....I truly believe we have to unite and get on with it....