[spot_on]

I'm sorry, but if you are attracted to the type of guy that Bear is, don't be surprised when you get burned. I mean seriously, that type of guy sends red flags up all over. Yet girls want to date them, then cry when they inevitably get treated poorly or cheated on.

Make better choices in men if you don't want to be made a fool of on National TV.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by spot_on

I'm sorry, but if you are attracted to the type of guy that Bear is, don't be surprised when you get burned. I mean seriously, that type of guy sends red flags up all over. Yet girls want to date them, then cry when they inevitably get treated poorly or cheated on.

Make better choices in men if you don't want to be made a fool of on National TV.

It was all pre planned. Bear is my favourite, but come on. It's obvious!

[Mystic Mock]

It's scripted bull**** so no I don't feel sorry for her.

[MB.]

God bless the logic that dictates that the woman is the one at fault for being attracted to a man who eventually cheated on her, rather than, y'know, the man who cheated on her

[spot_on]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

It was all pre planned. Bear is my favourite, but come on. It's obvious!

Bear has grown on me during the show and he is one of my favorites now. It would be so boring without him. But come-on, if I was a girl I would not date him. It is so obvious he wouldn't be faithful.

[spot_on]

Originally Posted by MB.

God bless the logic that dictates that the woman is the one at fault for being attracted to a man who eventually cheated on her, rather than, y'know, the man who cheated on her

It happens to guys too, the same applies. And if it happened that way on the show I would bring that up too. Don't try to spin this into some sexist thing just because you don't like the truth. Go stand on your soap box somewhere else, you are not going to correct world social injustice on the BB message board.

[MB.]

I mean it's a woman in this situation, hence why I said that

[Marsh.]

Tbh, it's one thing being cheated on, it's another him shagging someone on TV for all the world, your friends and family to see.

You can kind of forgive her not having the psychic powers on that one.

[smudgie]

If you can't stand the heat then get out of the kitchen.
It is pretty obvious Bear is an unfeeling twat just after his jollies, so unless you are just out for a good time then avoid boys like him.
She has been around the block so she knew what to expect..plus I still think it was all staged.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by spot_on

Bear has grown on me during the show and he is one of my favorites now. It would be so boring without him. But come-on, if I was a girl I would not date him. It is so obvious he wouldn't be faithful.

that's true

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Tbh, it's one thing being cheated on, it's another him shagging someone on TV for all the world, your friends and family to see.

You can kind of forgive her not having the psychic powers on that one.

He blatantly did not shag Chloe. They went into a toilet and she made some fake sex sounds.

[fitz2k2]

bear even knows that was scripted

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by fitz2k2

bear even knows that was scripted

They will be back together in no time.

[user104658]

The daft thing is, the "Chloe" plotline was the worst of Bear. Could have avoided it completely and have still been just as good a housemate, if not moreso. Probably cost him the win really.

[Ammi]

..of course..Bear's poor choices that are designed to hurt other people are understandable because he is what he is etc but Lillie's poor choices that hurt no one but herself are ...well, just completely thoughtless, really...makes perfect sense...

[armand.kay]

Let's not overlook the fact that getting in relationships with sleazy guys is Lillie's career.

[Ammi]

..whatever her 'career' is though, doesn't in any way justify or excuse his behaviour..I mean, it still makes him just that, a sleazy guy...

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by spot_on

I'm sorry, but if you are attracted to the type of guy that Bear is, don't be surprised when you get burned. I mean seriously, that type of guy sends red flags up all over. Yet girls want to date them, then cry when they inevitably get treated poorly or cheated on.

Make better choices in men if you don't want to be made a fool of on National TV.

I agree with this 100%.

[y.winter]

Not feeling sorry for both of them. They are two of the same kind, so they can crash and burn a thousand times as far as I'm concerned.

[mr rochester]

Bear was practising his acting skills (well, attempting to show us/block-buster movie makers he has them). Watch out Vinnie Jones...

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

It's scripted bull**** so no I don't feel sorry for her.

That's my feeling on this too Mock, some sort of pre planned occurrence.

I admired more the guy who Steph dumped on TV, who overall said virtually nothing as to it.
Someone who certainly would never have gone into the house either.

[Northern Monkey]

It's already established i think that it was all pre-planned rubbish.They have the same management team and she's another reality wannabe

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

It's already established i think that it was all pre-planned rubbish.They have the same management team and she's another reality wannabe

Again, this for me too.

[chuff me dizzy]

I don't feel sorry for her ,we don't know what the relationship was like, she could have been a right bitch

[Liam-]

I don't see how people couldn't feel sorry for her, alright, she could have avoided going on the show I suppose, but she was still cheated on and dumped on tv by a scumbag with no morals.