[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Tom*

Let's not try and trip people up and then wildly accuse them

It's about the person tbqh- and if they were looked my type and I had fallen in love with them (not just a ****ing one night stand, like WHAT are you trying to say, that someone would come up to me and say 'hey I'm a man' and I'd jump in the bed with them?!) it just really depends and how long I've known them for etc...

I'm not trying to trip you up I am actually really wanting to talk about stuff and clear my head on it all...

If its all about the person and not their sex, then really, there is no such thing as gay, straight, bi, or any sexuality as we know it?#


You are making me question myself so much right now and you probably dont even know it. My thought process is this. I am attracted to guys. It could well be that I am just attracted to people who LOOK like guys. If faced with a guy I fancied who turned out to have a vagina I would say no. Does this make me intolerant of others, or does it simply mean, I like dick. I barely have a sex drive at all but if I found out a partner had womens bits I just couldnt do it...